Me and my male friend have been dating 8 months and he is I see him almost every day and lately he says he has been busy. But when I said that I would leave him alone he wanted to come explain should I give a chanex or move on?
2007-01-23 05:27:28 · 8 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have romantic feelings for this man I would definately give him the chance to explain himself and what has happened. You deserve to know and he deserves the chance to tell you or you may drive yourself nuts by not knowing. It may be something else that has been keeping him from you other than another woman. Give him the benefit of the doubt until you know for sure or you could give up on something that is real and could be a good thing. However, if he is with another woman and hasn't had the gull to tell you and has just waited to be questioned, get rid of him and move on cutting all ties from him. A real friend wouldn't lie to you if you are seeing one another.
2007-01-23 05:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by angeleyes1981_25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont understand, maybe you're leaving out some info? is it not just possible that he's been busy? plus, just so you know, the best way to destroy a relationship, is to smother someone, and a lot of people feel smothered when they see their lover everyday. it doesnt mean they dont love you , it just means everone needs a little space. So i say just give the guy a little space, and if he hasn't ever done you wrong before, then you should really give him the benifit of the doubt that he really was just busy. and even if he wasn't busy, then maybe he just needed a break, its no big deal either way.
2007-01-23 05:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by jezabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move On.If He Can't Explain His Life 2 You Leave Him,He Might Cheat On You
2007-01-23 05:31:11 · answer #3 · answered by Trikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you have no evidence? No gut feeling? Not even a hunch? He explains how he is busy and you come up with this? I think you are being a bit paranoid.
2007-01-23 05:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by boredperv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would probably just listen to what he has got to say... He may have a good explanation! But, if it starts sounding like BS, I would just leave him alone... I'm sure you really like him alot, but things will get better! And you will find someone just as good as him, or if not better...
2007-01-23 05:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by *Red Hotts* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been "Dating" your "male friend"? Which is he? A friend or a date? My answer would depend on that.
2007-01-23 05:32:21 · answer #6 · answered by Melanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance.He could be really busy with his priorities.I suggest you to give him time and space.
2007-01-23 05:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on!
2007-01-23 05:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by HopeH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋