One of my 2007 resolutions were to start with new positive view of life. I’ve always been there to a dear someone, yet I found myself to be alone in times of trouble. I don’t want to blame or question why, how, or who started it. I’m back in a situation when I need to be with that someone, but they are away on a holiday and couldn’t get bothered!
I don’t want to speak up, coz I know I’d be accused of being needy, and I’m not!
How can I stop resentment now? Any ideas?
2007-01-23 05:23:49 · 8 answers · asked by HopeH 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop projecting expectations of people
2007-01-23 06:12:41 · answer #1 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off, find a new dear one, and start living your new life today.
You are not being needy, you are in need. When you give to that person, you naturally expect the same for yourself.
Don't waste your energy in resenting the person. That only hurts you. Look forward while remembering the good times.
2007-01-23 05:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to yourself...If you're going to be accused of being needy then 9 times out of 10, you don't need that other person and it's time to move on. You have a right to feel the way you feel and not allow anyone to make light of your feelings.
2007-01-31 03:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by Sexcchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you know this is not a good situation for you. Accept the fact that the other person is not concerned about you - this is not a comment about you, but about how they choose to live their life. In otherwords, it's their problem. Maybe you have resentment towards yourself for trying to be a good person to someone undeserving. You need to let go, you have more important and interesting things to accomplish that dwell on this.
2007-01-23 05:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just admit that you are needy, some of us are. In order to deal with resentment, you have to confront the situation head on and either change or get away from it.
2007-01-23 05:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping it to yourself is what is causing the resentment alive. You need to stand up for yourself...speaking up is not a sign of being needy...it tell's people you won't allow yourself to be down-trodden.
2007-01-23 05:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something else to focus on. Look at this as a learning experience.
2007-01-23 05:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm in the same boat ............................
2007-01-23 05:34:56 · answer #8 · answered by Baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋