Since last summer this guy and I have been flirting with each other. He works in a grocery store, so I see him about 1ce a month, and let me tell you he is PERFECT! He's confident (not too over done), mature, nice and good-looking. He started talking to me first b/c when I saw him I thought he was too good for me so I didn't give it another thought. But how can he like ME??? He barely knows me, I'm not yr typical nice girl, I have a very short temper, and mood swings (he's experienced one, and still talks to me). I think he's too good for me, I can barely talk to him b/c I get shy, and nervous(2 traits that occur when I'm with a hot guy, not friends). I think he deserved someone better, that can be happy and outgoing.
2007-01-23 05:12:05 · 11 answers · asked by ~Pitbull 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't take a genius to figure this out. He likes you even though you do have a short temper,mood swings, and you may be shy talking to him. I believe he likes every characteristics about you. You may be getting confused about him, but he may be the person for you. I say give him a chance, because 9 times out of 10 you're not going to find another guy like him.
2007-01-23 05:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is a key factor to most questions, that would help.
First off you sound like you are very hard on yourself, it is possible that he already senses this.
Most men are first attracted to women by their looks, no matter what they say at first glance it is something in the way they look.
It might be something that makes him feel comfortable and that could be the attraction. Your temper burst that he witnessed, he might have attributed it to any number of things. But the bottom line is if you think he is interesting and worth a shot try asking him out for a coffee, this is usually a good starting point. If it doesn't work out, then he was just being nice to you, if it does your off and running to a new future. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-23 13:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by whippitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you don't have self acceptance of yourself. Maybe he sees in you what you don't. Obviously if he is still talking to you, he has an interest. If you feel that he is too good for you than you need to get to the bottom of that issue. Why do you feel that way? Self acceptance must come first. You must love yourself before you allow anyone else to love you. Start there.
2007-01-23 13:17:39 · answer #3 · answered by heatherlc02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't like you because he doesn't even know you. And you can't know him because you've only seen him once a month. You have no idea if he's really confident or mature or nice.
If you have problems controlling your moods, temper and emotions, you're unhealthy. Healthy men do not pursue unhealthy women. Seek help, learn to control your emotions and then perhaps you will be ready to meet a healthy, mature man.
2007-01-23 13:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ever doubt you being good enough for a guy he is lucky u looked his way. If u like him n he likes u what is the problem. I think u need to first fall in love with yourself or how can you value someone elses love if you don't value yourself.
2007-01-23 13:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by Bricee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never say a man is to good for you. Your not ready to be in any kind of relationship b/c you don't know your own value. Get to know and love yourself and then slowly start hanging out with him.
2007-01-23 13:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by flygurl_co_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look you should not tell him who to date my wife when thur the say thing with me she said i was to good for her after well i kind of punched her then boyfriend for disrspecting a women and thats how we met so if he wants to date you he just see what you dont
2007-01-23 13:17:44 · answer #7 · answered by bond1254 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you offend yourself..see you say he talks to you..so he accepts you as you are and he likes you as you are..of course if you want more and really like him try to go out with him..and tlk a lot with him maybe he gonna ask you about a date!!....
2007-01-23 13:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Ashanti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't give yourself enough credit!Sure you are good enough for him,he talked to you didn't he?Well then that must mean he thinks your worth the time!Give yourself a little more credit,go for it!
2007-01-23 13:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by swt-bby-gl-69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's no way to think of yourself. Don't ever let him know you feel that way about yourself..........it'll make him extra extra cocky,,,,,,,,and that is not a good thing!!
2007-01-23 13:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋