2007-01-23 04:25:26 · 30 answers · asked by sexycharmedwitch 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just hang out with him at your friends homes.
But you have nothing to be ashamed of.
Your parents will see this as a normal rite of passage.
Although if he is your first b/f they ( your parents ) may be overly protective with you.
There is nothing wrong with keeping it to yourself at first.
But if it does work out don't hide him forever.
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2007-01-23 04:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? Your parents may have a geniune concern about your dating at this time in your life - if you're like 13 and too young, or if you have a trackrecord of dating married guys or something. In those cases they're probably right to forbid it.
If they don't have legitimate concerns, if you're 17 and never been on a date because of their wishes or something like that, then sit down and talk about it with them. Your parents might be freaked out by the amount of sex teenagers are having these days and worried you'll make a poor choice, or they might think the time you'd spend with a boy would compromise your studies or other activities. Once you know why they object, you can come up with solutions together.
For example, if they're worried you'll have sex, offer to bring the boy over to your house for dates, or promise that you will always be in groups and never out alone. If they worry you'll spend all you time with him, you can only go out with him on weekends or when your homework is done.
In any case, decieving your parents is definitely not the way to go - they will certainly find out in one way or another, and the trouble that causes will be far worse than the situation you're in now.
2007-01-23 04:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mysterious Gryphon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Sounds to me like you are either very young, and don't get out much, or you are very young and Mum and Dad are saying you are not having any of that stuff yet, so, listen to them, and be up front, they have raised you to be honest, so be honest right back, it's not as though this is the first time in history that this has been asked, they may even help you better than any outside your family can, ask them how they started, you could be in for a few blushes, and mention to them, you think you'd like to try meeting a young man, do it right, get it right, and fill your folks with delight, it's a lot safer that way, it's a dangerous world outside you very own front door, so be very careful, talk to your folks first, don't be in a great hurry to make a mess of your tender years. good luck to you honey x Tony M
2007-01-23 04:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by tony m 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey parents find out pretty much everything, remember they were kids once! If its a problem with having boy friends? try joining a club usually all the fit guys are into self defence, you could even suggest going to a class or two coz what parents wouldnt want their daughter to be able to look after herself?
2007-01-23 04:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats kinda quite simple it would be easier if you get someone in your workplace or college so that youll can meet everyday without arousing suspiscion..try and avoid phoning him up from home and never keep a secret diary its the worst thing you could ever do delete his no after he called or you phoned these are some of the precautions you need to take
2007-01-23 04:31:43 · answer #5 · answered by lattania s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its really easy, just say he is a mate.
mind you, ya shouldnt do that. if you think you have to, maybe your too young to start with? but your parents WILL find out, and if there is a specific reason they dont want you to have a bf, they will be even worse to face when they DO find out. if they are just protecting you, tell them you feel you are ready for a bf, will be sensible, and would much prefer if they just gave you their support. hope this helps. xx
2007-01-23 05:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents always find out* If you're needing to HIDE anything from your parents then it's not a good thing. If you're not "allowed because of your age" to have a boyfriend, you need to respect that....or sit down with your parents and tell them what you're thinking* Again, depends on your age*........but don't HIDE things from them.......They Will Find Out* Honesty is the best way to go *
2007-01-23 04:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age? With any bf type question him and you
Ok how about getting him to meet parents with all your mates so parent thinks he is just a mate. That way if he calls you they won't get sus.
Dont mention you are only seeing him.
2007-01-23 04:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if your that young that it is an issue,maybe you should respect your parent's wisdom.Or are you another one of those teenagers who is 13 going on 21.You know, the type that know everything,and their parents know nothing about life.Besides,what's the rush?.Twenty years from now you might see the wisdom of their decisions if your so lucky.
2007-01-23 04:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by EveretteDavid 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be an adult! Don't sneak around behind your parents back. if they find out it will just prove them right. You obviously aren't ready for a true, honest relationship, if you can't even be honest with the people you've had a relationship with your whole life.
2007-01-23 04:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really simple... DON'T!!! Your folks really do have your best interest at heart and can help you make good choices in guys. Remember, your mom dated one time and had to pick out a guy. Let them meet guys you are interested in and listen to what they have to say, they aren't as dumb as you might think ;)
Best of luck finding a nice guy
2007-01-23 04:29:54 · answer #11 · answered by magicman116 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋