I just saw his email he printed out on his desk at home. Big dummy..leaving that kind of thing lying around.
Anyway some ho was emailing him from LA and that's where he is going on business in March. He wrote her back he will meet up with her for drinks.
I confronted him and he said he was just being nice and he was not planning on meeting her at all.
What you think, should I dump his **** or what?
2007-01-23 04:17:30 · 23 answers · asked by Robyn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he is lying and was planning on meeting her.
I would get rid of him..he sounds like a dog.
2007-01-23 04:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he left it out because he's not trying to hide anything from you. Maybe he's a nice, trustworthy guy who deserves the benefit of the doubt from you. Or, maybe he's a big cheat and you've got solid reasons not to trust him.
Relationships are based on trust. Do you trust him? If not, you don't have much of a relationship and you should break up with him.
Before you break up with him, though, ask yourself something - is it him you don't trust, or are you reliving trust issues from your past, or are you an insecure person who needs to work on her own self-esteem?
Think hard on these questions, because you don't want to throw away a good thing for the wrong reasons, and you don't want to hang onto a bad thing if you'd be better off letting go.
2007-01-23 04:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by zoni_tonya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is lying and who knows if this is his first lie? What an excuse, he was just being nice? Come on. How did she get his email address to begin with. Are you really asking these questions because you do not know the answer or is this a joke? Do not let him underestmate your intelligence. Confront him and get down to the truth about this quick. Best of luck to you!
2007-01-23 04:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't said CYA to him yet, give him the boot and a kick in the A**!!! Yeah, he's just being "nice" what a crock of crap. He plans on doin the nasty with another woman, and he just told you that because he got busted. Too many other good fish in the sea girl....let this "trout" go!
2007-01-23 04:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by msjinx39 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So not only is he a cheater, he's a liar to both you and some other woman? He was planning to set up a time and date for drinks with a woman and not show up? Nice guy.
If you're smart, you'll dump him.
2007-01-23 04:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know the dude is lying about not meeting this chick, you know hes going to meet up with her, afterall, hes going out of town on "business"....hes going to mix business with pleasure, which is a no no but uh, i wouldnt say dump the *****, only if things get too serious and/or you have evidence that he has cheated....
2007-01-23 04:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if she was a ho, or just an old friend.
It is possible for people of opposite sex to maintain friendships, without romantic or sexual components. But, to do so, he should be upfront with you about his plans
2007-01-23 04:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by Adam Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes !
He did not have to be talking to her in the first place !
He is history,get a real man .
2007-01-23 04:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is meeting her for business, its ok
if he is cheating thats a bad thing. before you make sure he is cheating you, you need to knew the whole thing and take a decision,he may be just trying to be friend with her..
2007-01-23 04:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by Kewl guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep dump his ***, though u cant really blame the girl for all u know he might be telling her he is single.
2007-01-23 04:20:57 · answer #10 · answered by louisem28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋