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Like we both say we love eachother and its true nad sincere, But i feel theres more we both want from eachother that hasnt been said.

2007-01-23 04:07:45 · 13 answers · asked by Carly 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Well right now you sound like you dont really know what is wrong or what is not fullfilling your relationship. So what you need to do first is try to specify and identify those issues and then bring it up to him. Better yet if you ask him if he feels same way or if he thinks something else needs to be improved. Ask him what he thinks is perfect relationship and he can help you out with his opinion on whether there is something he would chnage or add about his current one. By asking for opinion he will not get upset thinking that you might not think your relationship is good enough or he may feel like he is not satisfying you, etc. (men tend to be very sensitive when it comes to judgments on their performance so they most of the time overread or draw conclusions or make assumptions that you trying to break up with them and all that other stuff...ohh i seen that; they can get all detailed on your ***). Good luck! Oh and i am sure you know but conversating about issues is the best problem solver. Its just sometimes people too afraid to ask or talk about stuff, that is why giving up on each other.

2007-01-23 04:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by BK thang 5 · 0 0

Well the key words here, "...that hasn't been said." You need to talk about it, pretty simple, especially when it sounds as though you really love each other.
But you need to ask yourself first, before you speak to him, what is it that you want? What is the "more" you want? If this is the man you want to spend the rest of your life with, then by all means, start now with the talking because that will bring you closer and strengthen your bond.
Don't come across with an ultimatum, come across with sincerity of your love and where you see yourself with him. Remember, he is part of your life, not your whole life, your wants and your feelings are very important.
Good Luck.

2007-01-23 12:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by megabites42 3 · 0 0

It's time for you two to sit down and have a heart to heart talk. If you want more, tell him. He may want the same thing! Especially if he is already saying he loves you. That is a plus.

2007-01-23 12:12:54 · answer #3 · answered by one in ninety-nine 3 · 0 0

just follow your heart. listen this is what i did i wrote a letter to my gf but i didn't really write it, it was like my heart just took over my brain and said everything i couldnt say before for me. it was really sweet and romantic and she loved it told me she felt the same way. just write some things you would like to say and if you just write something and look at it like wow. then that's what you need to be telling him

2007-01-23 12:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by IisIam 3 · 1 0

maybe talk a little more with him

maybe after a few hours , you might start to open up with each other

2007-01-23 12:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0 0

Buy him speed parts for his car that cost 2x your monthly salary and ask him to marry you.

2007-01-23 12:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well what is it u want? do u know specifically? figure it out and then ask for it

2007-01-23 12:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Decide what "more" you want and ask for that specifically

2007-01-23 12:11:55 · answer #8 · answered by zmj 4 · 0 0

communication

2007-01-23 12:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

He's gettin' all he needs. Apparently you need more than he can or is willing to give you. Welcome to the real world.

2007-01-23 12:13:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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