ok there was rumors going around that my boyfriend was cheating on me...so all day i was really mad at him, and then he was wondering why..well saturday he broke up with me because he said he needed to fix things up...he wasn't cheating on me...and now hes mad at me because he said"well you believed them when you should've came and talked to me"...so yesterday i wrote him a note saying sorry and all and yet he is still mad at me....i need to know what i can do to get him talking to me again so at least we can be friends and work our relationship up again!!!
2007-01-23 04:04:34 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rumors are rumors, worth about as much as the air they were breathed with. Since that seems to have been a big factor in ending the relationship, in which you demonstrated a complete lack of trust, it is unlikely that he will want to get back together with you. Wait six months or so and perhaps you two could be friends.
2007-01-23 04:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him know just how sorry you are for believing the rumors in the first place and for not talking to him about it before getting mad. A good relationship is based on several things and two of the most important are communication and trust. You didn't trust him and then didn't communicate properly with him.
Send him a note and tell him your sorry for both things and let him know you're ready to listen and that you understand why he is mad.
2007-01-23 04:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by magicman116 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's done with you. Guys don't wanna be friends with chicks they've hit. You'd just be in the way now. Time to move on. Unless you just wanna be "available". Now that can be worked out.
2007-01-23 04:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont talk to him, let him could talk to u. when u see him just act like u dont care. if he doesnt talk to u then he might have someone else
2007-01-23 04:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋