I really like someone. We have never talked face-to-face in person for a long conversation, but I see him everywhere, we bump into each other, and all of my friends are close friends with him. I REALLY like him, but he is really popular, and I don't know what to do to impress him or let him know that I like him and would be very interested in dating him. I know you're going to say I am young and immature, but that does not mean I do not need advice. I need help and advice on how to go about this, and how to make him realize this. How to impress him without making a fool of myself, how to get him interested in me, and please no imappropriate answers. I don't know where to start, or how to. Please help anyone I am open to almost anything!
2007-01-23 03:59:54 · 9 answers · asked by Shayla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a guy was interested in you, he'd show it. If a guy wanted to go out with you, he'd ask you.
You're not a circus poodle, you don't have to perform to get his attention or impress him- a girl who does that is pathetic, not attractive. IF he wants to go out with you, he'll ask you. Guys like girls who are secure, confident-- and don't chase them.
2007-01-23 04:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to impress him is to be yourself...seriously! Be confiednet, and strike up a simple converstaion even just starting with oneliners like, "Why do we keep bumping into each other all the time?" If he makes some smart a$$ comment, give him one back. Guys are so much like girls, they want people, esp girls, to oooo and ahhh over them so they want just as much attention as a girl does. Just take it slow, and DO NOT be affraid to ask/talk to him. Don't get your friends involved, even if they ask just keep it simple. Friends ALWAYS complicate things no matter how close you are with them. You do not owe them anything in this regards, it's between you and him and what you want/need. Rezlize yourself worth. This popularity game ends before your graduation day, trust me. He's human just like you are, poops, eats, etc. Best of luck....
2007-01-23 12:14:04 · answer #2 · answered by dudeinnorcal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can start with "Hello".
A word of advice:
He knows he's popular and if you have not "WOWED" him yet, it means he's not interested. On the other hand, you may be what he needs since he's accustomed to having everyone drool all over him and you're not doing that. This may be your niche for getting his attention. But keep in mind that if he is shallow and is looking for the prettiest, sexiest girl in school to make him look better, than I say lose him, he's not worth your time and effort.
2007-01-23 12:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start by talking to him more. As things go along I would mention to him you would like to go out some time if he was interested. Then take it from there. You do what makes you comfortable. I think if you talk to him more and then ask him to go out to dinner sometime to talk. Then move from there it would be a start. Good Luck! Hope you win his heart.
2007-01-23 12:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by browneyes79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first just chill!! Since all of your friends are close to him then find out what his interest are, what he likes, and then you can kind of spark up a conversation with him. Just be yourself, and if he doesn't like you for you ,then move on.
2007-01-23 12:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by kay-kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could start by saying hello. You have to see how he responds to you. Don't seem over interested, or over eager. Yes, you are young, but you know you have to be very careful. Above all else, you have to like who you are, and be confident about who you are. Not snobby, confident. Don't make yourself seem like something you're not.
2007-01-23 12:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by ericpaulette2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make a joke out of it. Say something like, "if we keep meeting like this were gonna have to go out for coffee." If he is into you he will jump at the chance. IF hes not( i really am rooting for you) then you can play it off like you were joking.
2007-01-23 12:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by samurai rabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go straight to the source and expressed your feelings and get your feed-back and then you will know for sure and you can take it from there.
2007-01-23 12:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the guy that you like him and see what he say's first and if he likes you my advice is to become his friend then work your way up to his lover
2007-01-23 12:06:32 · answer #9 · answered by twiggy_vienna_love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋