I'm thinking about having a little fling with a guy who is coming to my town in a few weeks. Someone who I really have a crush on and who finds me really hot.
Is it that bad since she never will know?
2007-01-23 03:56:33 · 19 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it is wrong to participate in cheating, regardless if you ever get caught or not.
I know it's tempting because he lives out of state and it's not as if you get to see him a lot and chances are she will never find out, but can you live with yourself?
Sometimes we need to practice self control.
2007-01-23 03:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you did and later someone found out about you and what if you have other guy you truly in love with and you really best in the world and that guy did what you did and of course you be heart broken. Really, I know you have feelings and you won't want to do that... Big Karma will come back to you...
I won't do that to person if have girlfriend. I don't care if you hot or not. I do hope you respect him and his girlfriend. Pls, take care of yourself before you do anything bad.
2007-01-23 04:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah that's wrong. You shouldn't do that and risk runing their relationship especially if it's just a fling. It won't be worth it and it won't make you more of a woman. You need to find someone who doesn't have a girlfriend and you can have a relationship with.
2007-01-23 04:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In alot of ways it is really wrong. He is in a commited relationship and you should be respecting that...
BUT ..it is tempting.
Myself personaly I would do it. He lives out of state, its just a one time thing..no one needs to know.. no harm no foul ..
UNLESS..
One of you says something , one of you doenst understand that it is just a one time thing. ....
as long as it is just hanging out, having sex whatever.. and you both realise the when it is over it is over.
Alot of the time in a situation like this, one of the participants seems to think that there could be something there between them, more than sex .. and they persue it and that is when things get complicated, relationships/trust gets broken and feelings get hurt.
As long as both parties involved keep in mind that is is just a fling and will go no further it should be alright.
It takes alot of trust to cheat on someone, being that there is so much chance of being found out and having your relationship destroyed.
THe best bet is of course not to do it in the first place. BUT to err is human.. and the call of temptation can be very very weakening to even the strongest person.
2007-01-23 04:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by timberleigh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, yet another stupid question - is the moon full or something?? Of course it is wrong. Cheating is cheating even if the other partner never finds out. If he'd cheat with you how do you know he does not do it with a LOT of women and is carrying a STD??? Grow up and find your own man.
2007-01-23 04:01:02 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Its not about hurting her its about you. You have to live with the knowledge that you are an immoral person. If she finds out then you have done her a favor, freeing her to find a decent man.
2007-01-23 04:04:21 · answer #6 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he become your gf, and an another girl feels the some way u r feeling and say, HE HAS A GF BUT I WANT HIM ANYWAY will u let him go or let him to that to u.
remember gosh around comes around
2007-01-23 04:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yrself, do you really love him or you just want or possess him. If you love him then by all means get him, but if you just want to satisfied your need or urge think twice. Because you gonna put yrself in his girl's shoes.
2007-01-23 04:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by ButterMilkQueso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur free to make ur own decision, but ask ur self a question, would u like somebody to sleep with ur man?
2007-01-23 04:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is wrong. how would you feel if you had a bf who cheated on you with his crush...even if she doesnt know about it she suspects it and it wont be that hard to find out if she really wanted to. don't do it.....please
2007-01-23 04:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by IisIam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋