Suppose u guys are good friends for a few months and share ur sorrows and joys, but u don't love each other. You do, however, share an intense sexual attraction for each other and perhaps even fantasize each other every night. If u decided to sleep together, will ppl judge u as being 'slutty' for doing so w/out having love or any commitment?
2007-01-23 03:56:02 · 11 answers · asked by curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you are really struggling with yourself on this one...there must be other repurcussions that you are worried about that you aren't sharing here. Who's opinion are you worried about? If it's something you're going to do behind someone's back and you're worried they'll find out and what you had will be ruined, then dont be! If you did care for someone alot (had a b/f) then you wouldnt be in the predicament that you are in right now, right? You and someone (a friend?) fantasize about each other (and you both know this?) and you are struggling with whether or not to act on it? Ever seen 'When Harry Met Sally'?? It's a well-known fact that men and women can't be 'friends'...men will always have one thing on their minds and advance towards this. Him sharing your joys and sorrows is a way of being intimate with you (thats what intimacy is...sharing emotion). You've been 'intimate' with this guy, he tells you what you want to hear, AND you're sexually attracted to him.
What's REALLY holdin you back?
Have sex with him, it may be better than what you have with the one you love (u dont love him either....not if you have a STRONG SEXUAL ATTRACTION that you share with someone else!)
Good Luck!
2007-01-23 06:06:32 · answer #1 · answered by Soldier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, how could you choose your self. at the start, how could human beings even understand you slept jointly interior the 1st place? sexual family members is to no longer be exploited, that's a private and private matter. 2d, in case you the two share mutual sorrows, then it extremely is the convenience and injury you share and not a actual relationship. i could re-think of the subject of snoozing jointly interior the 1st place. snoozing jointly won't fulfill the emotional convenience you're searching for by skill of bodily uniting. Moreso, your connection isn't grounded on a healthy foundation, yet according to mutual soreness, which in turn will reason you greater soreness.
2016-11-26 21:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've now asked this question four times. The answers will not change. Yes.
If you share all your feelings, your sorrows and joys, and you have this interest then why are the two of you only friends? Ultimately, it's your body. Treat it like a junk yard or a palace. Your choice.
2007-01-23 04:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by JB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT sounds great but I think that someone will end up falling in love and getting hurt another thing to think about is what if one of you meets someone else and fall in love with them . I think the sex will ruin your friendship .
2007-01-23 04:05:44 · answer #4 · answered by el diablo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be judged for something that's for sure.
But sex is always better when there is love between each other. Love is the whipped cream in your hot chocolate.
2007-01-23 04:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That wouldn't be a bad thing at all, no strings attached sex - so long as the two of you do it safely and responsibly is fantastic.
2007-01-23 04:02:11 · answer #6 · answered by c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see how any body would even know unless you gossip alot about your own person stuff. As long as you keep your mouth shut you should be ok.
2007-01-23 04:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a good thing to start.. if one of you develops feelings for and the other doesnt, its tough to break it off without severing your friendship... also, what would happen if you accidentally got pregnant?
2007-01-23 04:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're both adults and know what you're getting into, it's your own business. Don't think it makes you a slut though.
2007-01-23 04:08:10 · answer #9 · answered by freedove06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like friends with benefits... has nothing to do with anyone but the two involved... :D
2007-01-23 04:01:47 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋