Love my son for his seriousness
Love 1st girl for pesonality
Love 2nd for her honesty.
But I love you guys equally.
The response was " Okay Ma what is the real answer"?
ROTF
Was I wrong
2007-01-23 03:18:43 · 6 answers · asked by Support Breast Cancer Research 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
No thats a geat answer. As kids we asked my mom who she liked best, and she would simply answer "I hate ya both the same" LOL
2007-01-23 03:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bridesmaid will be good I have a 12 12 months previous daughter and he or she will be my bridesmaid (Psst....saves fights with my sisters lol) and im having my 2 12 months previous daughter as my flower woman so my 12 12 months previous will stand beside me yet also have the pastime of walking down the aisle and end her sister ingesting the rose petals. i imagine purely being component of the ceremony will be particular for her.
2016-10-15 23:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by mccarty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I (and others) don't think its a good idea to point out characteristics of each child because children become aware that their brother is serious, so in order to differentiate from him they may over-compensate and become giant jokesters. Also, if they sense that you value any of those traits more than you value others they will feel you value one of the other children more.
Even if you don't let them think you value, say, honesty over seriousness, your children may, themselves, have prioritized those traits; so one child could wish he/she were valued for personality if he/she thinks that would be more important to have than, say, seriousness.
I think the answer has to be that until they have children themselves they will not be able to imagine how you can love three people as much as you love each of them and how it is just impossible to imagine loving any of them more than the others.
2007-01-24 01:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will be worried about this even after you die.
no way around it.
they will each make their own decision based on
HOW YOU ACT
not what you say.
treat them with the equal love.
they may not ever understand until they have their own.
2007-01-23 03:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not wrong - I love that answer! They'll understand when they have kids someday!
2007-01-24 00:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by poohs_house67 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a great answer, you cant love one kid more than the other. my boyfriends mom always tells her kids (one boy, 2 girls and 1 granddaughter)
1 my fav. son
2 my fav, oldest daughter
3. my fav. youngest daughter
4. my fav. granddaughter
2007-01-23 03:25:49 · answer #6 · answered by Olivia's Mama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋