Ok, so there is this girl ive known her for almost 6 years now and liked here on aand off and she has like me on and off just at different times. We never started dating and have always remained friends the problem is the reason we remain friends is because I cant reead what she wants from me a relationship or friendship. we only do things with other people yet when we are together with other people she might make an effort to sit beside me slow down through all my friends to walk with me or so it seems. We definitely flirt but because when she has liked me b4 she nasically does not tell anyone or me or try and make it apparent. all in all she is a nice person and just asking her out to see if she does wont work. I need to be able to read what she wants me to know because we are friends I dont want to reck anything. any advice im super stuck all the signs say yes but im not 100% sure?
2007-01-23 03:17:36 · 5 answers · asked by tobosahge 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good question-as a girl myself i no how awkward it is for boys, BUT dont get me wrong its the same for girls(trust me) you may think its easy for girls to show there feelings but it is just as hard for us as it is for you,, i think you shud just go for it!!! if she doesnt like you just explain to her how you feel and you must of read the signs wrong and you are sorry but you cant help the way you feel about her!!! let me no how you got on pleeeaaasssseee xx
2007-01-23 03:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember stuck like you and didn't know how to tell her so I took her to the beach and sat down and as sun going down and I told her how I felt and I told her it didn't hurt to try and if didn't work out then we will still be friends and no hard feelings and I told her I can't read your mind or you read my mind if we talk and tell each other feelings might hit it off or not. so guess what she like yes yes. and went to school and all the girls came to me said "That so romatic how you asked her when you both were at the beach" LOL, still people think is the best thing in the world... so though to share with you... smiling.
2007-01-23 03:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some girls wait for the guy to make the first move - sometimes it is so hard to take a friendship to a relationship - especially if you've been friends for a long time. take a chance & reveal your feelings to her & ask her if she's interested in trying a relationship - if she says no, hopefully you can still remain friends.
2007-01-23 03:23:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way you are going to know is by talking. I am sure it is one of the last things you may want to do. it helps when you both know whats going on and this way you don't try something with out knowing for sure.
2007-01-26 03:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say to her what u feel because later will be so late and u will regret.. live your life like this is last day in your life.. have fun go away live your life
2007-01-23 03:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋