This is me again. My bf and I are still not talking, it has been over 10 days now. He always avoids me whenever we have conflict which I find to be very hurting to me. It feels like having my feelings discounted. Anyway, I am doing good, I started to take a class, keeping busy, but there are times I really miss him. Just need to have some encouraging words so keep me strong. Thanks for anything anyone can tell me. Best to you all!
2007-01-23 03:07:18 · 11 answers · asked by pictureshygirl 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi,
Just keep doing wht ever ur doing now n BELIVE IN UR SELF bcoz if u feel u r a loser ur ,if u feel ur a winner ur wht u think about u that ur so,think POSITIVE
2007-01-23 05:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by kavita singh t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel and I know how hurtful that can be. But if he's not man enough to face the problems that you 2 are having then maybe he's not man enough to be your boyfriend. To me he's acting like a child. But you are doing exactly what I would do in this situation...keeping busy. So keep doing that and take one day at a time.
2007-01-23 03:17:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone likes you so much as to ask this question for you... you must search no further as for a reason to live. There is nothing better than a good friend when things are not right and we are not at our best. Remember those who have been there for you, even when they may have left they believed in you. Count all of those you are here now for you, they are here because they care and believe you make their life worth living. Imagine those that you can care for, those that you can give a hand to enriched by the experience you are going through. Godspeed... You already have the blessings, I can see that.
2016-05-24 00:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep busy. Do what you are doing. Spoil yourself and try to be around positive people - maybe meet some new people that you do not talk about him with.
2007-01-23 03:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by RunsWithKnife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For those time when you need more than work, TOYS. They can get you through hard times but it sounds like he has made other plans and maybe you should think about seeking other male relationships.
Good luck
2007-01-23 03:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.
Believe in your Love, don't get dis-hearted with minor hurts and pains. Its part of life.
Request, plz love your boy friend the best u can. I am also sombody's boy friend, it hurts when she refers me as Ex B/f. Plz be honest and sincere to your Boy Friend.
Best of Luck
2007-01-23 05:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do it yourself, on your own. Just carry on as you are doing just now. Never lose confidence in yourself. The world is your friend. Best of luck.
2007-01-23 05:24:04 · answer #7 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give a **** if he ignores you ...........just keep yourself busy i know the time u r going through its like a learning curve anyway if u can then try to sort it out but if he ignores you then don't let Ur let down...... bcoz if he don't give **** about you so y should u?
2007-01-23 05:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if you feel the need to talk to someone you can email me if you want to anytime because i have the same problem sort of with my babyfather but i'll be more then happy to help you my email is: www.twiggy_vienna_love@yahoo.com
2007-01-23 03:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by twiggy_vienna_love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
share your pain with us every day
be busy all ways
2007-01-23 03:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by The Prince of Egypt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋