Ladies do you prefer you lover to be gentle or agressive in bed ?

Question

Ladies do you like you man to be a gentle passionate lover cussling , caressing talking sweetly in the heat of the moment , or do you want your guy to be agressive ( not to physically hurt you ) and more forceful pulling off your clothes being rough and I guess like a wild animal in the heat of passion talking dirty and telling you what he wants you to do . I know with most ladies it depends on her mood but which way turns you on the most .

Answer 1

I like my man to be gentle that way we connect on the deepest level possible, our mind, body and soul is completetly as one, how strong is that feeling when you look into each others eyes and see how you make each other feel....nothing on earth even comes close...but with aggressive love making it seems to miss out on that real connection...it's more like two bodies colliding instead of connecting, gentle love can still be passionate, and i find this one to be the best ever for me anyway.

Answer 2

I like my man to be gentle and passionate in bed. The sweeter he is the more passionate I tend to be. Don't get me wrong agressive is nice sometimes but to get me going be gentle and considerate of me as a person.

Answer 3

It does depend on the mood. But most of the time I like it rough. It turns me on when it's rough and when he tells me what to do, and how he likes it. I like it when he talks all nasty to me. We like to talk about the fantasies that we both have I like to be a FREAK in bed.

Answer 4

depends on the girl.mix it up a little =] <3

Answer 5

For me it's DIFFERENT. A surprize! Though, it should never be scaring, that is why a guy should watch the girl's reaction.

Answer 6

Depends on what time of the month it is ;)

Answer 7

a little of both!