Who is also a friends brother?that you were set up with and after 3 dates you dont really like?I mean he is nice and all but i am not attracted to him in that way.I also like another guy in one of my classes.I dont want things to be akward when i see him since we both attend the same college?Can i use the i want to be single right and not ready for a relationship now line? Also personality wise we clash big time he is a shy ultra christian guy and me i am shy too but i like to go out an have a good time once in a while plus i have a little bit of a naughty side.
2007-01-23 02:53:21 · 10 answers · asked by Jenny O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So i get really bored when all he wants to do is stay in and read
2007-01-23 02:55:16 · update #1
grow a spine and tell him what you told the internet. don't flatter yourself thinking that you're the best thing that will ever happen to him and you'll break his poor widdle heart. it's been three dates... he'll get over it. be honest, and if he's not mature enough to handle it and stay friendly, then it's his problem, not yours. otherwise, you're just wasting his time.
2007-01-23 02:59:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A single lie can sometimes drastically change events. I don't think it would be a good idea, especially in this case when you don't need to. If you are trying to spare his feelings, you can still be honest. I would recommend "I don't think this is gonna work out between us." He says "what do you mean?" You say " I just don't think we are compatible. It doesn't feel right"
Now let's say you go with the "i want to be single right now" line. How do you think you will appear if you are dating a guy a week later?
2007-01-23 03:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Cysteine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be honest with him no matter what if he digs you
whatever youtell him truth lie or whatever he will be hurt
Tell him you like him as a friend and respect him as that
and that is whats important to you right now!! Do not lie to him
he will respect you later for it.I believe in telling the truth
and being staight up with someone not dilly-dalling around
it..Be a straight up person not a dilly-daller...
2007-01-23 03:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by bananasplit1744 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the nice guy you're only looking for friendship and that there's someone else. Don't use the "single, not looking for relationship" because that usually backfires and then you have to explain why you jumped into a relationship with someone else within a week of rejecting him.... it's tricky- I've been there.
As for guy in college- you're supposed to want to see your bf every day, it should be exciting not awkward
2007-01-23 03:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by Girly girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him in a nice way that you are not ready for a committed relationship. Just be honest. Tell him that you see him as a friend only.
2007-01-23 03:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that you're not feelin' him in that kind of way, but that you would like to remain cool with him as a possible friend.
2007-01-23 03:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by Justcool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that you like being single for now and you really don't want to settle down. You just like having fun right now.
2007-01-23 02:57:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that your sorry and it is not working. Be brief and clear as to the reason...that's if you want to stay friends...do not drag it out...that will make it worse. He should be okay with it unless he is carzy.
2007-01-23 02:59:39 · answer #8 · answered by DIR S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to tell him the truth. be honest to him and he'll respect your decision. good luck
2007-01-23 03:02:56 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask zidane to headbutt you
2007-01-23 02:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋