why do we do this..??

Question

Since we got engage..for every holiday we give each other a list of things we may want... I dont know why we do this i think its silly.. i just want him to buy me whatever.. I dont really care what it is. is this normal in a relationship??? I want him to suprise me.. i think if he use his own head to "think" about what I may like it just shows that he know me... guys? girls?? why this?

Answer 1

Then tell him that you want him to surprise you. You'll make it hard on him, cause its always hard to find out what you want no matter how long you've been together. But tell him that this is what you want.

Answer 2

Well, maybe I'm a goof too , but it sure helps to know what a gal likes so I can get the right thing for her....Some guys just don't see what you like without you helping them out a little. Sorta like having sex, id a guy doesn't know what you like then you need to tell them so it is more fun that way. HMMMMMMMMMMM

Answer 3

I dont give my boyfriend anything kind of list. That takes the fun out if it.

Answer 4

That's so booorring! Surprise him with something that's not on his list next time and then bring it up when he is surprised and tell him you want to be surprised from now on.

Answer 5

You have an awesome point.I too like suprises.

Answer 6

Never heard of that before...it is practical but it is a goofy idea...I'd prefer a surprise anytime.

Answer 7

Tell him how u feel. He may feel the same way.

Answer 8

You are right (assuming you don't complain about what you get!)

Answer 9

tell him.