well he has a girl thats his best friend and vise versa for me .. so i think nothing of it when they walk together and stuff. but today he left me walking by my self, didnt sit by me when we had a assembly(sat by her) and in class called her my name ... ontop of that he let her put his hair in a pony tail and complains or takes it back down when i try to do it ... i repeat TRY !!! should i be mad at him for calling her my name today
2007-01-23 02:43:10 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be careful......
If he is doing stuff like this, don't u think he is trying to tell u something?????
Like.........he wants to move on but he doesn't want to say it.
If u get me.
Good Luck.
Wizdom
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2007-01-23 02:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by Wizdom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you should be mad. but this goes far beyond pony tails. It is one thing to have an opposite sex friend I do (but my boyrfriend comes first without any extra effort) but to leave you sitting by yourself he has more interest in her then just friendship. I promise I see a jerry springer situation in your future.
2007-01-23 10:49:46 · answer #2 · answered by judy_74074 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi worried girl don't be mad at Ur boy since u don't know his plans it may be that he is just trying to see how u think about him if not and think u are still not comfortable with what Ur boy is doing why don't u approach him and tell him that u don't like what he is doing so he should stop is at this point that if he does not stop then u know that Ur boy is no more interested in u.
2007-01-23 11:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by kingebostarry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he is not calling you her name, I say you are okay.
I think it's hard to accept a straight guy with a good female friend because most men do not get along very well as a buddy with women.....guys just want to sleep with them and that's why they hang around and become their friends.
You have a male friend too, though.
2007-01-23 10:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by *nevermind* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is doing this to let you know that he is no longer interested in you, but maybe he doesn't have the heart to come out and tell you. i would say that with him showing that much interest in the friend, there is something brewing there, especially since he is now pushing you aside. maybe it's time for you to move on. there's too many fish in the sea to put up with that.
2007-01-23 10:50:10 · answer #5 · answered by Cathy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look if they act like just friends and nothing more then I wouldn't be mad at him but if to you they look like more then just ask him about it. Him calling her your name could kinda be a good thing actually because that means that he is thinking about you. Just go with your heart!
2007-01-23 10:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by Teresa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh honey, this is a good one. let me think... okay here it is, it could just be innocent flirting, but its deffinetly flirting. being bestfriends with the opposite sx is okay, but there are boundaries. keep your eyes open, tell them how you feel too. if that don't ease your mind, set up a hidden camera! LOL. take care hope I helped.
2007-01-23 10:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should sit down and talk to him about this and tell him how it makes you feel tell him it made you uncomfortable if he doesnt see anything wrong then ask him how he would feel if the roles were reversed ask him how he would feel if you called another guy his name or played with another guys hair infront of him maybe he will see your point of view
2007-01-23 10:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by ~Lisa~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course Alesha if your boyfriend does that to you it's not worth your time I think he is interested in the other girl and you need to treated better than that.
2007-01-23 10:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by scottsmith20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to relax. If he called you her name then by all means react but he called her your name which means he is thinking about you. I would talk to him though about showing you some more attention as it seems his loyalty is divided.
2007-01-23 10:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋