My friend lala has a crush on our best friend alejo. I asked him out for her so now they are going out. alejo and i have more classes together than lala. Alejo talks to me more and sees me more b/c class schedules. lala thinks that that alejo likes me if he does (which he doesn't) I don't like him and lala wants me to tell him that she thinks he likes me.
how do i save all of our friendships
2007-01-23 02:39:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-23 02:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your friend Lala is a chicken. You shouldn't be the person stuck in the middle, it's not fair to you because it's not your business. If she likes him, tell her that she should tell him, not you. That's cowardly, and she has no right to even get angry or upset with you just because you hang out more with him. It's not your fault. Tell her you don't want to get involved any longer, and if she wants something, she should work for it. If you want to help her, you cannot do it for her, you can give advice and let her do it herself. That's the only way that she will not be so dependant on you.
2007-01-23 02:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lala need to get her singing butt on, don't nobody want alejo, if she caint accept the fact that y'all are friends then she is not a friend. u should try to convince her that u would never still her man, and that friends don't go with each others man, that's just nasty.
2007-01-23 02:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by forever T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should all three go out to the park or something similar... and just explain to alejo what is happening, while all three of you are there, he'll give an honest answer to what is going on and all of you can stay friends : )
2007-01-23 02:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell them, its their relationship, they are the ones dating. don't get invoved. tell your friend lala if she wants anyhing said to alejo say it herself. trust me don't get involved unless it has to do with you directly. stop playng games honey, people just get hurt in the end.
2007-01-23 02:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by annie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You all just need to have a sit-down. talk out the issue. i know your friend will understand because you have more classes together he see's you more so of course he will talk to you. if she cant get that then she is the jealous type and then you have to cut down on the chat if you want to stay friends.
2007-01-23 02:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by nickmesa2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like him more than a friend then tell him so and save your friendship. Lovers may come and go but a true friend will last so much longer.
2007-01-23 02:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know your best friend has a crush on this guy then it would devestate her if you were to start seeing him. Unfortunately it means he is out of bounds for you and you have to let him reject her if that is what he is going to do and then be a shoulder.
OOOOH this is like Buffy, Willow and Xander.....
2007-01-23 02:45:12 · answer #8 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell Lala to tell him herself.
2007-01-23 02:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you already told her that you guys don't like each other, then there is nothing more you can do. She needs to get over being jealous.
2007-01-23 02:43:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOur friend is beign paranoid. Nothing you can do about that. Do exactly as she asks and hope for the best.
2007-01-23 02:44:06 · answer #11 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋