We have been together for a little while. The first time we had sex, the condom broke. He ending up cuming inside of me. Then the next time we had sex, the condom broke yet again. And he ended up cuming in me again. I have about a week till I get my period. But I am still scared. Like I don't love him and I know that he doesn't love me. We both are not financially stable to raise a child. We both are really paranoid. I don't know what I can do. Parents and those who have been in the same or similar situation as I am are more need. But I could use all the help and advice I could get.
2007-01-23 02:39:22 · 18 answers · asked by Britney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have gotten checked for STD's and I am clean.
2007-01-23 03:02:30 · update #1
Hi Britney, I have been in that situation, {more than once}. I don't know what city you're in, but there are places like " Planned Parenthood" and other organizations everywhere. Go on line, or your phone book. There are many options nowadays. They also have councilors, etc.. that you can talk to. I had to have an abortion at 19 yrs. old. It sucked to have to do, but neither of were ready for kids. It was the right thing to do. You have to concentrate on yourself, and 'growing up' right now. Good luck, and don't be scared, you're not alone. { BTW, Get better condoms, and tell him to pull out before he 'finishes!!}
2007-01-23 02:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by isis8x3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may want to contact the doctor and request the morning after pill. Get your man some larger condoms and remember you have now also been put at risk for sexually transmitted diseases. See an ob gyne or your local health clinic. I am however proud of the fact that the 2 of you tried to be responsible by using a condom!
2007-01-23 10:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by roseysuzy1128 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop stressing if at all possible because it can delay your period, then you'll have to wait een longer to find out and have more stress on you. Even if you are pregnant it won't be the end of the world, people make it work everyday. Idealy you should have a baby with someone you love, but even if you don't it won't hinder the love you'd have for your child. If you are not pregnant you should get on some birth control asap. your local women's clinic will have discounted or free birth control for you.
2007-01-23 10:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by Jennylind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be on birth control also, then you wouldn't have this problem...also you could have gotten that morning after pill, (planned parenthood is a good place for all of this) also if the condom broke you need to get checked for STDs. I really hope you don't decide to get an abortion if you are pregnant. Please try to get some birth control so you wont have to worry about a baby. Good Luck
2007-01-23 10:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by jennifer d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abstinence is the key. However, iam sure you are scared............Pray.
And find a womans clinic that can give you an exam and place you on birth control if you choose to continue to give your body to men that don't love you. There is a hard lesson to learn here hun. But there are clinics that will test you and there are services you can find (on the internet) in your local town that will provide counseling and treatment if you should find yourself with an unwanted pregancy. Honor your body. Take a deep breath, everything will be ok. Look up support groups, go to your pastor or church, local hospital, etc. One other avenue is your local social services dept. and/or free clinics. Make some calls and surround yourself with girls that are in the same situation and can offer you and show you the proper channels and guidance. If you have a mother, as scarey as it may seem, speak with her.
2007-01-23 10:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should have tried the morning after pill.
That is what it is for, situations like this.
If you get real lucky and don't become pregnant remember this next time.
And I have some bad news you may be pregnant even if you get this period. It will be next months period that you will probably miss. Take a prego test today.
2007-01-23 10:45:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First why are you having sex with a guy that you don't love? Are you just killing time? Well first you should get checked out at plan parenthood or go buy the test.
2007-01-23 10:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by cowboybronco01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Take a test
2. Why u have sex with him? Cause he was 'there'
3. You don't love him. Why do it?
4. Good Luck to you.
5. Hope it goes well.
6. Wizdom x
2007-01-23 10:44:15 · answer #8 · answered by Wizdom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously don't have sex with someone you don't
love. Tell the dude to get rubbers in a real store not the dollar store
2007-01-23 10:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didn't you go get the morning after pill? It may not be too late....you should check on that..................BE MORE CAREFUL. Pregnany is a risk, but not to mention the many STDs out there. You never know....be careful.
2007-01-23 10:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by CPA2B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋