... even when you are so in love? I don't mind, just asking....
2007-01-23 02:37:46 · 13 answers · asked by johnny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some think that playing hard to get makes the men want them more. Some do it for sexual intentions. Other aren't playing hard to get, they are hard to get.
2007-01-23 02:41:35 · answer #1 · answered by Britney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you want a challenge? If everything in life came easily, what fun would it be? Would you prefer it if you just walked up to a woman asked her out, she said yes, then for the rest of your lives she is completely agreeable and tells you everything you want to hear? BORING!! Think about it though, men play hard to get as well, how about that 3 day rule?? Where when you get a girl's phone number, you're not supposed to call for 3 days! I think both women and men play hard to get and it keeps life interesting.
2007-01-23 10:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by carinamicc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about playing hard to get but putting some mystery in it
If a girl gives in easily it won't be that great
Some mystery will spice up the game of romance and memories tend to be lasting than that done without a sweat
2007-01-23 10:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Misho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating is really just a game of cat and mouse. We play hard to get so that we dont look desperate. Who wants someone that looks as though they aren't getting play from no one. My advice hang in there if you really like her, play her game for a minute and if she's not reeling in fast enough act as though you are moving on. Trust me from someone who plays those type of mind games with men (I don't know why).
2007-01-23 10:48:23 · answer #4 · answered by explosyv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard to get and having self-respect are two different things. A woman should guard her heart and besides......what are you doing that would cause a woman to, as you say" play hard to get?"
2007-01-23 10:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, it isn't play. I am hard to get. I'm worth the effort. If a man doesn't want me enough to work for me, we would be wasting each other's time.
2007-01-23 10:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Jazz Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, the ladies want to feel wanted and appreciated. Thats why th eladies get hard to get, cause they want to know if the guys really like her, (that lady), and us girls have to know if the guys are just playing us or they really like us.
2007-01-23 10:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by mari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuz im uniqe,and play the hard game!
Im not that easy!
2007-01-23 10:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by Pinky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To make men feel accomplished by getting us. Men get bored when they don't feel like they are "hunting".
2007-01-23 10:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why they do it either. I think its something biological in them.
2007-01-23 10:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by jxt299 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋