When i come home from school everyday she finds something to fight about and i get tired of it. Sometimes i feel like running away because it doesn't feel like she loves me.
2007-01-23 02:33:43 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
been there done that. what do you fight about? you breaking rules? chores? because you want to do something and she says no? She is your parent. running away isnt the answer. I had a place to go... my dad. but............from hind sight... try to compromise with her.(it will mess with her mind if nothing else) If you ask to go to the movies and she says no, then ask, ok, if I do this or that(laundry and room or dishes) and I babysit and pay my own way can I? If she still says no, ask her the reason, it may be that she doesn't trust who your going with. I have three daughters now. I tell them, when I say no, its because of something... I am not saying no just to be mean. Mothers were put on this earth to teach and protect their children. Talk to her. If she won't talk, talk to your school counselor. Maybe your the one who is being unreasonable....?
2007-01-23 02:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
TALK TALK TALK!!!!!! She loves you don't ever question that.
Both of you just need to sit down and talk out what ever problems your having, and why they keep coming about. I know when I was having issues with my mom it turned into fighting matches with yelling, swearing, and hitting. I regret every moment of it, and now I can't change it.
One day your mom will be gone, and you'll never get back these moments that you have with her now. Talking, understanding, and working out the problems is the best thing you could ever do. Not only will your mom look at you more like an adult, but in the long run you'll end up having this amazing relationship with her. I lost my mom 4 years ago, and I would do any thing if I could have back those days. Even if they were when we were fighting. I just hope she knew before she died that I loved her very much, and she meant the world to me! Cherish every second you have with her.... Good or Bad, cause you'll never know what tomorrow brings, and you don't want to be regretful for the rest of your life.
2007-01-23 11:45:39 · answer #2 · answered by Loveable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i know how u feel whenever me and my mom are in the same room together a fight breaks out! i don tknow why but she always complains about something and she is a clean freak while im not! I get tired of it too -- just dont run away! she does love you but maybe shes like my mom and just has problems communicating and the only way she knows how to is by fighting!! Just go out with your freinds or hang out with other family members or talk to your grandparents about it maybe they can talk to her? good luck -- trust me i know how it feels
2007-01-23 12:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day just say, Mom, I know things may be difficult, and I do not mean to upset you, and it upsets me also, when you jump on me for everything, Mom how can we work this out, I do not want to make you mad. Can we try and get along better? and if I am doing something to upset you, lets talk about it. Some times when you come home, say, Mom, how was your day, and when you leave tell her, to have a great day, and that say, I love you! You know she may not be feeling so good. and you are the one that she is taking it out on, So just see if you can talk to her! I hope everything works out for you!
2007-01-23 10:47:36 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ever try to talk to her calmly? Just go up to her bring something nice to give to her maybe and just say hey mom i want to talk to you and tell her what is going on the is the problem, and work it out if she become angry just tell her you love her no matter what she says or does, keep saying things like that then she will get the picture that you don't want to argue, and if there is a problem with something that you are doing, just stop and fix the problem, it's going to make life so much better, don't get bitter towards her or it will make things worse, i have dealt with this before with my mom, now we are like best friends, don't give up, work it out with her!
2007-01-23 11:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by bubbles_in_the_tub_4_u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try talking to her, when no one is mad or angry. Tell her that you think that you need to work on your relationship. That you love her very much and don't want that to change, that you wish you could be closer and all of the fighting is getting in the way.
You need your mom and should do whatever you can to repair your relationship.
2007-01-23 10:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by mingcrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ignore that first response..sheesh who would write something like that. Anyway, give it time with your mom. sometimes things are not really about us..maybe she is going through something that is totally unrelated to you. or..tell her your sorry and try to do better on what ever she is upset about. a sincere apology goes a long way. if she wont accept the apology and gets mad at you even more..then..well..give it time..dont run away..hang in there.
2007-01-23 10:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by wartytoadjody39 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im guessing youre a teenager, youll get over it its just a phase! and if it doesnt pass, when youre older, youll find that not living with your mom will do wonders for yalls relationship. me and my mama are the same way we love eachother very much but we cant live together
2007-01-23 10:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by i_like_bears 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kill her
2007-01-23 10:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by chrisislikeagod 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋