my family is awful compared to the sterotypical "brady bunch" first off their my dbag wife who never cooks or cleans she just goes off to her 16 hour wonder job at mcdonalds and acts like its all ok then theirs my son brandon he's 14 yrs old and loves the gothic stuff all he has in his room are dark posters and black make up i tried to get him to play sports to help him out of this phaase but all i can seem to do is tackle him as hard as i can and throw the baseball at him and say quit being a ***** goth.. your not apart of my family then their is my 3 year old daughter mckenzie all she does is cry cry cry beacuse i yell at her for not using the bathroom correctly i mean my god i was using it by 1 .. so anyway my ? is their any kind of medication that will help my family no be complelty retarded i mean its not easy being unemployed for 4 years
2007-01-23 02:15:55 · 11 answers · asked by tom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
sounds like meds are not really the option but a good family shrink might be able to help... there are even ones that will do it for free...call your local health department/family services or the like and they should try and push you in the right direction....you also seem like you have some anger issues that need to be looked into...hmmmmm....so see a counselor.....ALL of you.... good luck...why are you unemployed?? mabey you could get a job doing something else?? something to aleviate your tension?? even if its doing stuff at home and selling it at craft shows it might help.. you at least need a hobby...smile
EDIT TO OTHER POSTERS!!!!!: OK TOM I LOOKED INTO YOUR OTHER QUESTIONS AND FOUND ALOT OF STRANGE AND KINDA TWISTED QUESTIONS...NONE OF THEM ARE ALIKE.. I THINK THIS QUESTION IS MADE UP OF BULL**** AND ITS NOT REALLY RIGHT TO POST QUESTIONS LIKE THIS WHEN THERE ARE SOME SINCERE ANSWERS ON HERE FROM PEOPLE WHO REALLY THOUGHT YOU NEEDED ADVICE...SO MY NEW ADVICE TO YOU IS ......READY.......GET A LIFE!!!!
2007-01-23 02:21:05 · answer #1 · answered by marnibrown1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no one else but to blame the parents. I think first you need to start doing something. If you are just home, its definately gonna get u depressed and get you mad all the time. There is someone who has to guide them. Children arent gonna learn by miracle. It takes a lot of patience and effort. There is nothing gonna be achieved by yelling.
You really need a new approach since the old one not working. Try a more calmer and nicer attitude towards ur kids, if you urself think they are weird, they are going to think they are right being in their own world. You really need to make them feel part of the family by accepting them and show them there are other exciting things than black make up. You need to win their first then they will listen to you.
Pls dont show anger, as it wont solve anything.
Good Luck.
2007-01-23 02:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anne H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you need to chill out and look at what u just wrote how can u call yo family retarded- and u r the one that needs the medication for ur nerves b/c it clearly looks like u have no patience. Kids are gonna be kids u can try to show them the right path to take but they have to make mistakes to learn from them and about your little girl everyone as differnet growing abililties and u should show her all the love in the world b/c that can mess her life up and u need to have respect for ur wife b/c at least she is trying to take care of the family.
2007-01-23 02:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by Cherri09 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes,there is medication for you so that your family can put up with your crap.
You need to get a life and get a job !
Don't yell at your child just because she wets her pants, everyone is different,just because you used the potty at 1 doesn't meen everyone else is going to.
As for your wife - you should be thankful that she puts up with you..I wouldn't...and why should she clean and do all the house work when she works...Marriage is a 50/50 deal you both need to put in as much effort as the other person.
your son is probably acting out because of the way your acting.
You need to go see a shrink......you could also go to your church and talk to the pastor..
2007-01-23 02:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo. bro. im 16, i have 4 siblings, and a dad like you. wayyyy to support them!! good job on loving, no matter what. your wife, idk cuz u didnt tell me enough. your son, its a phase and its how hes expressing himself, itll probably pass in less than a year. and your daughters three. why would you yell at a 3 year old? help her. love her. and the medication is .. i guess counseling. but you yourself arent completely perfect, no job? get a temporary at a food store or something, dont let the wife bring home the bacon.
2007-01-23 02:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by Brendan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the only person in your family with a problem is YOU!!
Apparently your wife has to work that much to support your lazy ***.
Your son is trying to hide the only way he has figured out how. And your little girl is probably so traumatized by you she can't use the potty with her father screaming at her. That pisses me off, leave your little girl alone and be nice to her.
2007-01-23 02:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes their is medication for YOU so your family can deal with all your psychotic Bull S***. Get a job and do something with your life.
2007-01-23 02:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by FANNY 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nice story. Maybe you could act it out on Springer or something.
2007-01-23 02:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ooh er....you are stressy arnt you....probably from having too much time on your hands..........GO GET A JOB
2007-01-23 02:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
no there is no magic pill but perhaps you should do them all a favor and move...that might help them a whole bunch......
2007-01-23 02:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋