one lives in North Carolina and right now the other one is in the war!!! I really need help!!! Andy (NC) is like never home he's always at work and Shawn (War) can't really talk to me cuz he's kickin ***!!! I need help!!!plz give me advice!!! who should I choose!!!
2007-01-23 02:13:20 · 11 answers · asked by April Agnostic™ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u see first I was with andy I wasn't as depressed then Shawn and his gf broke up and he need someone to talk soo he started to talk to me and now he asked me out before he leftfor the war!! I never answered him cuz I love andy and shawn thinksI'm with him!!!andI'msupporting him in the war!! but now that andy's workin longer hours I barley get to talk to him!!!
2007-01-23 02:25:46 · update #1
Well you have to think hard and with your heart. There is a chance that Shawn may end up dieing while in the War. There is also a chance that Andy could be cheating on you. You never know. I don't want to sound heartless and/or cold, but you have to think. Here are some questions you should consider thinking about.
1-Which one were you with first?
2-Which one do you connected with more?
3-Who was it that told you that they loved you first?
Really think these questions over and take some time to answer them. I hope everything works out and hope that this somewhat helped you figure out who you want.
2007-01-23 02:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by Britney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Andy is home but he is too busy to be with you now than when will he ever be with you in the future. I think he is a loser because I bet you anyhting that Shawn would give anything to be out of Iraq and be with you. Forget Andy and fight your own war for Shawn.
2007-01-23 10:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by CurlyQ2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to weight your pro an cons about both of them. See which one makes you the happiest and which one can you see yourself grow old with. You must chose one quick, this can get really ugly. This is really unfair to the two men in your life, if you chose to continue this way.
Good Luck
2007-01-23 10:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by helpful friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's messed up on your part... you have a man fighting for this country who probably thinks he has a good woman waiting for him when he comes home... little does he know your messing around with someone else... Why did you even get your self in this position... If you have a man then why did you go looking for another one... See its women like you who give the rest of us bad names... you probably don't deserve either one of them!
2007-01-23 10:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by scoobynscrappydoooo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do yourself a favor and find someone that is free, available and near you. How can you even remotely consider a relationship at a long distance...is that fair to anyone????
2007-01-23 10:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are banking on these 2 guys never meeting! Are you only with the soldier because of bragging rights? I think you have to choose and stop stringing them both along.
2007-01-23 10:18:36 · answer #6 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
which one can you spend the rest of your life with. that is the one you should choose. Who makes you the happiest. Who is the one you couldn't live without.
2007-01-23 10:17:39 · answer #7 · answered by alexia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep these two as friends and get some 1 new !
2007-01-23 10:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither...Move on to someone else. I f you have to choose what's the point.
2007-01-23 10:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the military mannnnnn yo! hes relying on you to get him through over there.
2007-01-23 10:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by Brendan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋