hey my dad is so confusing! i mean i was doing my homework last night and then he started yelling at me cuz i wasn't cleaning the house and i swear to god that he wants to f******* yell at me just for the hell of it! and i am a freshmen so i am like too young to move out and it is just getting bad wat should i do!?
2007-01-23 01:55:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
WHERE IS YOUR MOM? It seems to me like she's 'not around' and that your dad is trying to make you do the things he thinks a woman/his wife should do and is not thinking of you as a child with a good future to strive for. Your dad could be 'grieving' if your mother has died recently, or there could be other 'heavy' issues you are NOT COMPETENT to deal with, and you SHOULD NOT at your age. Talk to an ADULT whom you can TRUST, especially a counselor at school, and see if there isn't a way s/he can talk to your dad about 'getting the help he needs' ... and that could be anything from him needing therapy to simply needing to think about getting a housekeeper. GOOD LUCK, and KEEP DOING YOUR HOMEWORK FIRST! so you will be able to get a good job when you are old enough to move out.
2007-01-23 02:23:24 · answer #1 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, you're avoiding doing your chores. Get them done before you start your homework, that way your dad won't interrupt you by yelling at you for not having done your chores. If this doesn't work, then talk to your mom or another adult in the house about it. It could be that your father is stressed at work or something and is taking it out on you by yelling at you.
2007-01-23 10:04:09 · answer #2 · answered by Doll 101 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be calm, and try to find out why your father was upset, and yelled at you, people don't yell for no reason. Perhaps he had mentioned already something about cleaning up. Being a student is alot of work and chores sometimes are forgotten. If it's getting bad, and you consider yourself too young to move out, you have to try and work things out with your providers, talk to your dad and try to understand him, as long as you live with him.
2007-01-23 10:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by Frank the tank 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just start doing your chores before you start your homework but if he still yells at you fro no reason then i suggest you talk to hm about tha situations
2007-01-23 10:14:11 · answer #4 · answered by Cherri09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur dad yelled for a reasonable reason? maybe he came back home, tired and exhausted, and found the home like a wrecked ship?
2007-01-23 10:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by Pauper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it unless he one of those parents you cant talk to tell him how you feel the only way to get anything done is to tell him that if not just ignore him and do your school work first then worry about house work later
2007-01-23 10:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by toofavorable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋