me and my gf have been dating for 3 months and we love each other and we either hang out or talk on the phone constantly. i kinda feel like im getting bored and she is too and sometimes we just run out of things to talk about. what should i do to give our relationship a boost or is it over? i still love her
2007-01-23 01:53:22 · 8 answers · asked by anonyman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this isnt over , you just have a crush but , if you love her just take sometime and dont talk as much so you can miss each other , me and my g/f has being going out for 5 and we have this problem just dont talk as much , or to make it easy hang out and do stuff together like watch tv , its better to see her than talk to her on the phone because you will hang out with her everyday and when you call her she will have something to talk about like your day , like what you did
2007-01-23 01:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont' think you can really love someone after 3 months. You also don't say how old you are, and if you are looking for a spouse. It makes a big difference. Dating when you're young is for fun and practice -- to help you decide what sort of person you want to spend you life with.
Dating when you are older and looking for a mate is different. This is the person you will spend you life with if you choose correctly. If you have nothing to talk about now, what will happen when you are 70?
My husband's grandparents have been married 72 years, and they still discuss news, politics, and family gossip every day.
2007-01-23 01:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by suzykew70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, 3 months isn't a very long time for a relstionship. Don't give up on it. But maybe you two should cool it for a while, seeing each other and talking constantly can really put you in a pickle. You're going to get tired of each other fast. Take it slow, don't rush! thats one of the worst things you can do!
2007-01-23 01:58:35 · answer #3 · answered by britt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't talk over phone. Show her some interesting places. Surprise her with some little thing that you know she likes. Women love surprises. You are 3 months in date and you think that you are bored? Don't talk, do something.
2007-01-23 02:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by johnny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love her then do things that are Romantic, its not how much stuff you say to each other or how much time you spend with one another, although thats important its what you do during the time you go out. And theres always somthing to talk about, i bring random stuff up when im talking to my girlfriend. She seems to like it.
2007-01-23 02:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by christopher M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships change over time....do something new or different....try not to get into a rut doing the same things and going to the same places all the time...make some new memories that will give you different things to talk about......have fun together...good luck
2007-01-23 01:57:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop going on the phone it wastes the world energy...er. no...
if your a chav then i cannot help you.
but if you scene alternative emo! rocker METALHEAD! hippy geek then i can....just dont talk as much....then when you do youll have more to talk about :)
clever eheh?
2007-01-23 01:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by Marianne C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noone but you and her can fix it.
2007-01-23 01:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋