I met this woman about a month ago on a christian dating site, and we spoke on the net for a while, and then the phone the rest of the time. We were supposed to meet this past weekend, but due to her schedule, we didn't. Now about a couple weeks ago, I didn't hear from her for about a week, and she told me her schedule was hectic, meaning pretty much 7am to 2pm then 3pm to 11pm. I respect that, but every time I go to my yahoo home page, I go to the icon "messenger" and notice that she is online and to my knowledge, she doesn't have access to a computer at work or school. I am just seeing if any friends are on, and she happens to be online. So all of this doesn't add up, what do you think is going on here? Am I getting the run around?
2007-01-23 01:51:54 · 9 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, you are getting the run around. don't be foolish in wanting her so badly. She is not for you. She is at home on her computer and either chatting with others, or still looking for her special someone. You are not it.
2007-01-23 01:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by summer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that she leaves her computer on. I do that a lot and often will come back to it to find that a friend or family member has tried to chat with me while I was away. Also, often one of my teenage daughters will be online under my name. So, if she has older kids, this is also possible. Why not instant message her the next time you see her online and see what happens. If you don't get a response, then the next time you talk to her,just be direct. Ask her if she is really interested in you or not. Don't come off pushy, but be honest with her. Tell her that you've seen her online a number of times, and because of it, you're not knowing what to think. I'm not sure how the Christian site works, but if she isn't interested in you, isn't there a way she could block you from contacting her? I would think that if she really didn't want to see you, she would have done this already so that you would get the point. I hope this works out for you.
2007-01-23 10:03:07 · answer #2 · answered by ceegt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortuantely, I think you are getting the run arund! I am sure you like her but you need to move on. There are many other women who will give you the respect you deserve and tell you the truth. I don't care how busy you are, if you really like someone you make time for them. Maybe she is not who you think she is. I would keep looking! Sorry if this is not what you want to hear. Good luck!
2007-01-23 09:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by H's Mama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lmao, at the first two answers, yea, diss ***** seems shady azz all hella, so dont waste your time, find another "christian" girl heh heh
2007-01-23 09:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly, a big hug and kiss for you hunni, this girl is playing you im afraid, im sorry to be so blunt, but i mean, if she wanted to speak, she would, you got to move on.
2007-01-23 09:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by law 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, follow your instincts. Ignore her for awhile and watch what happens.
2007-01-23 09:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you know it is really her online you might be adding something into this that it isnt so just ask her
2007-01-23 09:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by toofavorable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gave up reading at "Christian dating site"......
2007-01-23 09:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go with your first instinct..it is usually right
2007-01-23 10:12:10 · answer #9 · answered by klowery1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋