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There is this boy I like, and I think that he likes me too. What should I say to him? Should I say anything at all?

2007-01-23 01:46:06 · 16 answers · asked by layna 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Just start a conversation with him, and see if he responds. If he likes you, he'll want to keep the conversation going. Don't worry, he may be just as shy as you are.

2007-01-23 01:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by grandm 6 · 2 0

I'm wondering what your age is. When I was in HS I was in the same situation, but I was too shy to say anything. After HS (and just after I was married) a boy I really liked in HS came up to me in a store and said HI. We had a short conversation, and he told me that he had wanted to ask me out in HS but was too shy!! So, I say go for it, but don't be too bold about it... guys don't generally like to be run over.

2007-01-23 09:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by JJ S 2 · 0 0

Hmmmm, well my advice is, men always no matter how shy they are, prefer a woman not to be that forward, so if i were you, i would sit tight and make sure you got your lippy on and are looking gooood at all times, and wait till he askes you out, if he doesnt hunni, then he wasnt that interested in the first place, good luck and dont forget the lippy xx

2007-01-23 09:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by law 2 · 0 0

You should talk to him. Tell him how you feel, ask if he feels the same way. Stay cool and act friendly, but not pushy. And don't continually ask him to do things with you, once or twice will do the trick, if he likes you, and is not busy, he should also ask you to do things.
Get to know him better :)
Hope this helps!

2007-01-23 09:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by Fiona M 3 · 0 0

You could ask him if he has a girlfriend. Say you are just curious. That's usually a hint that you are interested in him, and he should pick up on it.

Also, try just meeting his eyes a lot when talking with him, and smiling at him a lot. Touch his arm, and laugh at his jokes. Catch his eye and smile sweetly... flirt!

2007-01-23 09:52:29 · answer #5 · answered by lacykat 2 · 0 0

Of course you say something to him!!!! The only way for him to know how you feel is for you to talk to him. You don't have to go all out trying to impress him, just a simple conversation with him if fine. If you want to talk to him just tell him your feeling about him.

2007-01-23 09:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Play it cool, cause if he likes you as a friend already, he'll come ask you out. BUt if you feel like telling him, make that move! Sometimes guys need a little push=)

2007-01-23 09:50:18 · answer #7 · answered by *+* Miss NATION*+* 2 · 0 0

Of course you should say something to him,maybe you could ask him to go out or even make him to invite you(By talking about the places YOU LIKE example:restaurants with good food but not a 5-star restaurant cause you don't want him to be sad all day just because of the money he paid).

And also,don't talk about the things you hate.Such as :I hate bread ,I hate Janet because.... something like that,cause he will think that you are a negative-minded girl.But if you hate him doing what to you ,you can say that to him NICELY.

Notice the topics he likes to talk with his friends.You don't want to hear him say that he hates Lindsay and gets bored while you are talking about how good Lindsay's miusic is,right?

You may have competitors,don't even give them a chance .Never let anybody making out with your guy although you are a saint.You will feel like dying after your guy switches lover.

*You must confirm that he likes you before following the next steps:

Act like yourself since he likes who you are, act like a popular girl if you are 1,act like you are a cheerleader if you are 1.Don't act like Beauty Queens if you don't wave like them cause he likes who you already are!
As your relationship grows stronger,you can introduce him to your family or let him have you introduce to your family.Let him know what he should to while having a visit to your house,example:"My mom don't like dirty and impolite guys so act like you are .......etc".Give him advices like this.You don't want you parents complaining how XXX he is,do you?

Don't squeeze him just because he is looking at some girl for a short time.Don't even think about breaking up with him just because he asked some girl to help him with the things you can't do.You both can give spaces, example:he can look at girls as long as you can look at boys.He won't like you more if you squeeze him.If you notices he always notice the same girl,then you must do something to stop him(Don't fight with the girl he sees as you will give bad image to the school)All you got to do is tell him that you love him and doesn't want to leave him with that girl(That doesn't knows you are both are in relationship).If that girl knows that you are both in relationship.Stay away from that whore,both of you!
Do have a nice valentine next month,wish you luck!

2007-01-23 10:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by Razor 1 · 0 1

You could invite him to go somewhere with you and see if he accepts your invitation. Or you could be more direct and just tell him that you really like him and ask if he would want to go out sometime. Good luck with this!

2007-01-23 09:54:39 · answer #9 · answered by ceegt 6 · 0 0

well i liked a boy and he liked me i waited until he asked me out and i am glad i did i think you should do what feels right
GOOD LUCK

2007-01-23 09:52:19 · answer #10 · answered by Megan 2 · 0 0

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