last weekend i had an one night stand with a friends body...i slept in his flat and the next mornig he said, that he really enjoyed and he is looking forward to seeing me again...the problem is, he didnt ask 4 my number...huh? acually he coul ask "our" friend, but if he would be interessted seriouly, why didnt he ask me???
what do u thing???
2007-01-23 01:07:33 · 15 answers · asked by marienchenkäfer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you saying he used her? When two grown ups (I presume they are) have a one night stand, why do you say the girl has been used? OK, maybe they used each other, then again, maybe they just enjoyed each other. Anyhow, this is a two way thing.
And for him calling back - who knows? If you are interested in seeing this guy again, call him. It's 2007, women are allowed to call guys. If he wants to meet you again - great! If not, well, you know where you stand. Good luck!!!
2007-01-23 01:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by Amymoni 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there are two likely possibilities. I'll start with the bad one:
1. He wanted to sleep with you, slept with you, doesn't want a relationship, behaved politely to avoid and awkward situation, and plans to move on without speaking with you again. When people behave this way, it seems to prove that animals are our cousins.
2. He forgot / didn't think to ask! It was morning. He really does want to see you, but didn't stop to think that he doesn't already have your phone number. In which case, he might be (a) a little bit dull for not getting a grip on the situation, or (b) sophisticated, realizing that he can get your number when he needs it.
They say actions speak more truth than words, but actions are much more ambiguous than words.
2007-01-23 09:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do I get something wrong in the meaning of "one night stand"? It's all about sex only, isn't it? So if he said he enjoyed it inbest case he meant you were quite good (in bed) and not that he wants to marry you as soon as possible. If I say I'd watch a movie again it doesn't mean I ring the TV station asking for the next broadcast, I just wait wether it comes or not ;-)
2007-01-23 09:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by male4girlz 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry. Ya been used. If you don't want 1 night stands make sure they are after a relationship first. Instead of jumping into bed with em, get to know em a bit first.
2007-01-23 09:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by Honey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by him looking forward to seeing u again, and not getting ur details, id take it as hes looking forward to next time he bumps into u and feels horny and is going to take u back for a repeat performance. i wouldnt say people who are into one night stands look for anything serious anyway (experience) otherwise they wouldnt get with just anyone would they
2007-01-23 09:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by roundtree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he won't call he has got what he wanted and sees what your about he is not going to call you in a mans eyes you were an easy peice and if you done it with him like that how many others has this happened to or how many more in your future are you going to do this with
2007-01-23 09:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im afraid i agree with everyone else i think he just used you, if he does get your no from your mutual friend then plz do not sleep with him again until you are sure what it is he wants, if he likes you then he will wait for you!! if he only wants you for sex then he wont hang around.
good luck
2007-01-23 09:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he forgot. Not getting at you, but it's really unpleasant trying to read a question when the spelling is so bad!
2007-01-23 09:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh dear a one night stand
hmm your really going to be respected by this man
2007-01-23 09:11:23 · answer #9 · answered by crunchymonkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a one night stand is casual sex and he's happy to have it if you'll give it to him while he looks for a girlfriend .
2007-01-23 09:12:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋