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2007-01-23 00:40:29 · 1 answers · asked by ladosluv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Work on yourself. Once you learn to love, value and respect yourself - really and truly - you will not require others to validate you. And that includes your significant other. Find yourself, find your "centre" (hope that doesn't sound to cosmic and mystical and all) and learn how to be at peace with what you find there. Always love yourself enough to pursue your fullest potential as a person. That way, when you worry that your partner is straying, you know it's not because you're a crappy person that he/she isn't interested in being with. It's no longer anything to do with you. If your partner is unfaithful, it's because he/she made a very poor decision.
Jealousy is one of the most destructive flaws in our human make up. I personally do not believe that it is a natural element of our nature. God never intended us to hoard things to ourselves...especially not one another. If you suffer from jealousy, my best advice would be to focus on getting to know yourself. If you discover things about yourself that you do not like, then change them. Become the person you want to be, and if others don't love or respect that person that you have become, then that is 100% their problem.
Hope this has helped some.
2007-01-26 15:12:40 · answer #1 · answered by intuition897 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋