I've become really good friends with this guy over the past eight months. He's really irraplacable, he always puts me before himself, spoils me like crazy, and whenever I'm alone and need someone to talk to, he always gives me good advice and always gives his shoulder for me to lean on. However, I want him to become my boyfriend but I think he's scared of being in a romantic relationship. I this point from what I've seen, I know he likes me, but I think he's just to shy to admit them. WHAT DO I DO?
2007-01-23 00:36:02 · 8 answers · asked by Crystal A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could maybe ask his personal views on friends that date. Hear what his likes and dislikes are about relationships that fail and if he can revert back to just friendship. If it sounds good you two could try a "trial dating" period of 2 months and if that works you take it from there.
2007-01-23 00:44:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've got the exact same problem (guys are clueless, aren't they?). What seems to be working for me is a a bit more flirting... maybe we're just stuck in friendship zone. My guy is really scared of commitment, sounds like you got the same prob- point out one day how long you guys have known each other, maybe something will click and he'll realise that you've been friends for so long that a relationship isn't such a bad thing. (Or spell it out to him... Good luck!)
2007-01-23 08:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by Girly girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come straight out and ask him. Tell him you don't want to affect your friendship in a bad way, but you were wanting to know if there is a chance for the two of you to become more.
2007-01-23 08:41:57 · answer #3 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure that he have a feelings for you,try talk to him..
Tell him that everything what you both have from friendship can be better in a beautiful relationship which you can together build..GOOD LUCK
2007-01-23 08:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by --Breathtaking-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him on a date and u hit it off like u think u will then go for he might be shy because he dosnt know that u like him back
2007-01-23 08:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy Blonde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should ask hin out on a date, take the bull by the horns,and make the first move. wishing you all the luck in the world.
2007-01-23 08:46:41 · answer #6 · answered by babz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him know how u feel. I know its not easy.
2007-01-23 08:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl, ask him out!!
2007-01-23 08:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy Lilian B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋