this guy that ive been meeting up with said the other day that he got out of a serious relationship in april (that was ages ago!) and he's not ready for comitment just yet, i didnt ask for anything more he just said it out the blue, we still meet up at weekends and speak during weekedays. is he leting me down gently or does he just want to take it slow? x
2007-01-23 00:34:59 · 10 answers · asked by lulu x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
with have had sex, few times
2007-01-23 00:35:25 · update #1
Baby girl you can look at this two different ways and that is why you are confused! He has hope that his ex and him will get back together since they are still seeing each other. I think that is what it is but what you got to do is call him out on it!!!!!!! ASAP I do not think that he wants a new relationship with anyone, so do think that it is you.....He don't want to let his ex go ok sweetie!
2007-01-23 00:56:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you've got to consider is - did he get hurt in his last relationship? Even so - 9 months might seem like long enough for you to get over someone - but everyone is different.
Why not say to him that you appreciate he wants things to move slowly and your willing to wait - but only if he wants you to. Its better to know the truth now. Just ask him.
2007-01-23 08:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forget some breakups can really mess people up for a long time afterwards, some people never truly find themselves again. Just go with the flow and keep seeing him at his pace if you like him. In the meantime though this, of course, leaves you with lots of free time to see others!!!
2007-01-23 08:45:01 · answer #3 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gently...and you should be thankful to him for that. I hope you haven't done the deed with him yet. If you have, that may be the reason why he's done with you. If you haven't done that yet, it may be his way of saying that he's just not that into you. When a guy says that he just wants to be friends, that means just that. Don't push it or you won't even get that.
2007-01-23 08:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh god! You Shagged! that is probally why he said he doesn't want a serious relationship. Slow down!
2007-01-27 07:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by x cutie x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just want to take it slow
2007-01-23 09:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy Blonde 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think sex is the main attraction here so if the sex is every now and then ..........hes letting you down gently, least until the sex stops !
2007-01-23 08:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he just wanna have a someone to fcuk..he dont want a relationship...seriouly, stop the thing before ur fellings grow up
2007-01-23 08:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by marienchenkäfer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your a f*ck bud (some one he can call on when he doesnt fancy a w*nk) get rid
2007-01-23 08:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by janetlouise24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to take it slow and who can blame him as I too would want to take it slowly if I was with you :-)
2007-01-23 08:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋