im 15 and theres this guy i went to primary school wiv. i no longer go 2 the same school as him but live in the same area. we used 2 meet up quite a bit. he admitted his feelings 4 me but in dont feel the same way and i think he knows that. he texts me telling me stuff and then says im the only one he can trust. he goets angry when i dont reply 2 his texts and sends me up to 6 texts in an hour because i havent replied..
what should i do?
2007-01-23 00:19:05 · 20 answers · asked by Laura4864 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
his mum also recently died and he drinks to cope wiv it.
2007-01-23 00:19:37 · update #1
Tyr to put your self in his shoes for a minute. As mch as you do not have feelings for him does not mean you can no longer be ther efor him. Ths guy just wants someone he can talk to and someone who will be there for him during the hard times. You need to undersatnd guys also have feelings and they hate it when they are brushed off.
2007-01-23 00:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is in a place mentally that you really don't want to accompany him in right now. He is probably depressed and want company from you to talk about things but he may end up thinking that he likes you for a girlfriend. I wouldn't trust anything he says because he sounds irrational by the way he texts you. I'd let him know that you want him to stop texting you and if he doesn't stop I would warn him that you will take things a little further until you CAN get him to stop and leave you alone.
2007-01-23 08:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm!..... you said, "I THINK he know I don't feel the same way" how do you know? HAVE YOU TOLD HIM YET? I understand the whole my momma died thing, but that should not stop you from telling him that you don't like him, Of course be sympathetic to the loss, but don't let that get in the way and lead him on to think that you care for him the same way he does for you. He sounds possessive, so you need to stay away from him bfore he switches into psycho mode on you(if that not already the case)
2007-01-23 08:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by Jeenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he needs someone to talk to and he feels comfortable with you.
Be his friend but set limits. Tell him you're there for him and will get back to him when he needs you but that he's got to be patient.
Be sure to remind him it isn't necessary to constantly send you text messages. Make sure he understands that sometimes it isn't possible to get back to him immediately.
If he doesn't respect that and continues, you may need to tell him to not text you at all.
2007-01-23 08:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by DannyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents. Someone needs to tell this boy to back off and he obviously won't listen to you.
If he still continues after an adult talks to him then the police need to get involved.
2007-01-23 08:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by Lucy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too bad about his personal problems, but it's not your problem!! Tell him how you feel, and if he persists in bothering you, call the police...he doesn't sound like a person you need in your life, I see trouble brewing in his!!!!
2007-01-23 08:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try changing your number, or send him a text that says you really don't appreciate what he's doing
2007-01-23 08:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by blondedarkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. If you just want to be his friend and help him get through losing someone close to him, tell him that's as far as you want this relationship to go.
2007-01-23 08:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave you alone. That's it and don't respond to any type of phone calls or text or email.
2007-01-23 08:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to stop drinking.....not play with your mind......and tell him you can him can be friends and not lovers or whatever the hell yous were doing cause.....you don't want that......you is what's most important, not what he wants.....so just be a friend and if he wants more he's not really caring for you if he's not respecting you!
2007-01-23 08:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋