i love one girl. i proposed her two three times she denied. but she told me we can be good friend. and she is my classmate from 4 yrs. she knows me very well. but i really love strongly her answers were also changes with every proposal with different problems. finally i accept her friendship. but i just want to know really love me or not.
2007-01-23 00:15:24 · 19 answers · asked by Rahul D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she says she doesnt want to marry you then I dont think she loves you that way.
Best leave it be as if you keep pushing the situation you wont even have her as a friend.
2007-01-23 00:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you say with each proposal her answers change Im assuming she keeps saying no?? well rule of thumb if a woman or man says no and they just want to be friends than friendship is all they will ever give u she may love u but only as a friend and well it may not be the love u seek but sometimes the love of friendship can be much sweeter ..best of luck
2007-01-31 00:09:37 · answer #2 · answered by stumbleupon_thapoet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y cant u b her friend? do wht she wnts u to, make her feel that u r for her n can do ne thng fr her....she must be havin a genuine problem n thts the reson she is avoiding u...dnt leave her n mke her feel special, she probly loves u even now, but is confssd abt u n her future...best of luck n if u love her dont change ur view fr her....if nt a girl friend u'll end up with a good friend in ur life...which is hard to find...
2007-01-23 01:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by nishdreams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she loves you, I think she she keeps giving you different reason because a) she doesn't want to hurt your feelings b) She isn't sure why she doesn't want to marry you. If I were you I would stick to being friends - who knows may later on she'll 'grow' to love you.
At least if you are friends you haven't lost her altogether. Perhaps you'll find someone new and more right for you.
Good Luck
2007-01-23 00:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her - relationships have started when there's been less than friendship, but don't bank on this ever happening. Keep your eyes open for another girl, that way your heart doesn't get serially broken.
2007-01-28 00:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Modern Major General 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well did ye even go out you how did that go if she jus wants to be friends then obviously she dosent love u. try goin out with her and put away the ring for a good while
2007-01-30 22:14:34 · answer #6 · answered by shane o d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she refused you she is not worth falling in love with. Wait until you are closer and don't rush into things. All things come to those who wait.
2007-01-26 20:48:27 · answer #7 · answered by x cutie x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they say ..We can be good Friends... That's all it means.
This is the older excuse in the world to say ...You have no chance. Very soon you will see her with another guy.Forget about it.
2007-01-29 23:27:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should just try and be her close friend and forget dating her.if she wants you to be her friend ,then that's all u will be or u might get lucky and she falls for u. try going out with another girl and see her reaction, if she gets jealous then congrats dude.
2007-01-31 00:12:43 · answer #9 · answered by alley G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stop asking her to marry me.Take things slowly & Good Luck
2007-01-28 03:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋