I have dating a guy for 2 weeks. We have spent 8 out the last 14 days together and talk every other day often. I've met his mom. I've spent the night at his house. But I soon as I mention our relationships he says we are too early to call it that. If we are exclusive then why won't he just call me his girl?
2007-01-23 00:02:45 · 23 answers · asked by dab1121 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is too early, two weeks doesn't constitute a relationship. If you're together after about 6-8 weeks then I would say it was a relationship.
2007-01-23 00:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by Velouria 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Two weeks is too soon for you guys to have a relationship, let alone him call you this or that.
You are supposed to be getting to know him and deciding if YOU think he's a good match for you for now and for the future. You are supposed to be having fun.
YOu are not supposed to be waiting for him to annoint you 'girlfriend' and make you worthy. What a big turn off to any healthy guy - and a bad sign about your committment to your own values and your own future.
Why on earth have you already spent the night at his house?
You sound desparate, and guys (and gals) don't like desparate. You shouldn't either.
2007-01-23 00:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by cassandra 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two weeks might be too soon for a guy to acknowledge he has a girlfriend.
Atleast in my opinion, it takes me some time to actually realise that i'm taken and that it's an exclusive relationship.
I recommend you give the guy some time to get it through his head that you're his girlfriend. If he isn't dating around then you shouldn't worry about this. He'll come around eventually.
2007-01-23 00:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by Enricfp1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are kidding right? It's only been two weeks! It is way too early to call it a relationship. Try at least two or three months. You sound like you are in high school or just clingy, really immature and inexperienced with dating. Good luck with that!
2007-01-23 00:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's either commitmentphobic or he just wants to have fun. And to me there's no such thing as commitmentphobic. He knows having a GF is a serious engagement, and apparently he can't separate the boy from the man yet. There's plenty of guys like that nowadays unfortunately. They give a bad name to the rest of male population. Still there's some good men out there, mature enough to take a sweetie like you seriously. Dump him until he grows up. If he doesn't, then it's time to find a man instead.
2007-01-23 00:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you shouldn't be afraid. People need different periods of time to determine their relations, especially if they have suffered some obssessing and hard relationship. So, don't worry! There are not so many men who would like to take their girlfriend and meet her with their mother, I'm sure that he has serious feelings about you but he is a little bit afraid. So, if he doesn't want to call your "relations" "relationship", don't panic, justdo it slowly:)). Good luck!!
2007-01-23 00:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by petya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's keeping his options open, or maybe he doesn't want to jump into anything. Nothing is set in stone. Give it time, you are a new couple, the last thing you want to do is rush it, he might feel trapped or smothered, and wind up letting you go. Give it at least a month until you start talking about relationships.
2007-01-23 00:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are not wanting to be committed to that term, because they dont want the commitment, and others feel that they need to be in a relationship longer to see how committed he and she is to the relationship. He might take the title "Girlfriend" more seriously than others.
2007-01-23 01:49:26 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks and you've already met the mother in law, slept at his house, so whats gonna be next have his baby and he still wont call you his galfriend mayb he has a phobia for the word but it seems to me he playing around my boyfriend starting calling me girlfriend 1 minute afta i said yes.
2007-01-23 00:18:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because two weeks is not really a relationship? It's still the dating period. I would wait at least a month before you introduce him as your boyfriend.
2007-01-23 00:12:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋