am suppose to be going to trinidad to see my son for his first bday on sunday.but am only staying for 10days,but my bf is making it hard because he's telling me that when i come back its gonna be different.i dont know in what way,but he says everythings gonna change between us.he thinks that i shouldnt go because he says he jus dont see whats the big deal.so can u tell me if am doing a wrong by going to see my son on his first bday?
2007-01-23 00:00:37 · 11 answers · asked by hott g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your son is family. If you satnd up your son, the gilt will be with you for all your life. I guess you are a risk taker. Go see your son you will eal with your BF when you get back . just tell him that you will be a different perosn when you get back and he should prepare himself for that.
2007-01-23 00:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by cynnie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
noooooooo you go see your son for his b-day this man is trying to control your moves and telling you your son birthay is not a big deal.. is the wrong thing to say one thing any man should have control of is the love and care you have towards your children.. is not a big deal for him cause he wasn't the one in labor or cariyin a child for nine months.. and the way he is talking is seems it might be something else he has in mind beside you leavin to see your son,maybe he is lookin for a sorry asss excuse to go and do something stuped... Im telling you this because my husband is the same way, everytime he goes to talkin about things changing is because he is outthere messin around and don't be surprise this is just where he is going.. and if it is if you stay to try and stop him he is going to find another ridiculous excuse to go and do what he has to do.. it dont look like he cares about you enough to even tell you what is changing... analyze your relationship with this man is my advice and please go see your kid he came from within you,he should be first in your life. You are not doing nothin wrong by visiting your kid.
2007-01-23 08:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon now, you know that there is no one in the world that would tell you that you are wrong for going to see your son on his first b-day. It appears that because someone else is raising your son and your boyfriend is having issues with the idea that you are leaving a very important part of the story out. What's REALLY going on?
2007-01-23 08:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by MeHurdu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your not making a bad choice its your man. Why is he gonna tell you things are gonna go wrong. In my perspcetive I think he's a loser and that he should grow up. You want to see your son so go do that and tell him to live with it it's you choice. And 1st of all it's your sons 1st bday is this man crazy I say ditch him!
2007-01-23 08:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Baby_ Frizell 09 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It bothers me that you are not with your son anyway. But your boyfriend has issues. He is obviously jealous of your son or the relationship with whoever is raising him. Get your priorities straight and dump the boyfriend. Go and see your son.
2007-01-23 08:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me but why haven't you got your son? As for your bf, he's being selfish and I reckon he intends to make you pay dearly for your trip. Just my guess!
2007-01-23 08:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nooooo that is not wrong....what's wrong is that you are even asking anything about this guy...he sounds like a total insensitive jerk...is that who you want to be with.....a good guy would be paying your way and maybe going with you...encouraging you not threatening you....choose better and good luck with your son
2007-01-23 08:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are seriously thinking about not seeing your SON for some guy then just shoot yourself. No guy is worth you not seeing your son. ()
2007-01-23 08:07:03 · answer #8 · answered by Saint 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh poor girl i think u should go u r totally doing the right thing because if u dont u will regret it GoodLuck
2007-01-23 08:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why he would behave that way. It's your baby and it would make you feel real good for you to see him. He's not being supportive at all. I think he's insecure
2007-01-23 08:08:02 · answer #10 · answered by blondedarkie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋