There is a lot of preaching on the subject but how many men trulty wait to have sex after they get married to the woman they are dating? I know women are accountable to this and may even manipulate a man sexually but my main question is how many men really keep their boundaries out of self respect and respect for the woman? It seeems like no one lives to the standards anymore.
2007-01-22 23:59:37 · 5 answers · asked by java348 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I am saying that the bible is the standard meaning God tells us to wait. If man made the bible then why do so many men have a problem with the standard in it?
2007-01-23 01:47:46 · update #1
If a woman I'm dating tells me she doesn't participate in premarital sex, I don't pressure her or try to trick her. I dump her on the spot.
2007-01-23 00:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lee Harvey Wallbanger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not see holding off on sex until marriage manipulation. Any guy I"ve dated knew my rules from the very beginning and knew that I wouldn't give in. I never used lack of sex to get what I wanted, or the promise of sex. I never date long because the guys I've dated (probably all guys, for all I know) seem to think that sex is the begin all, end all of dating. It was all that mattered and when they couldn't trick me into bed, they left.
I"d love to meet a guy who respected my boundaries without trying to trick me into giving up my beliefs.
2007-01-23 00:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by sister steph 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Very confused. Who sets those boundaries other than the people themselves, some people have different boundaries than you do, do you repect that or is it your way or the highway?
2007-01-23 00:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by fourmorebeers 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
standards? anymore? are you aware that 500 years ago, these women would be married and pregnant at 13?
2007-01-23 00:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I speak for all men when I say women with boundaries are stupid, bible thumping, retards. If you don't have the decency to have sex then you do not deserve to date!
2007-01-23 00:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋