Do I have a problem with reality? What is wrong with me? I have been single almost 1 year. I would really love to find a special girl but have given up trying. Every girl I have had a genuine interest in has not felt the same way about me. I feel like nobody wants me, im not attractive enough, and im not good enough. I work in the city as a courier and I see hundreds of beautiful well dressed girls with good jobs and i think, out of all of them there must be just 1 girl who would be interested in me. But the more i look at them, the more i feel lonely, unwanted and depressed. Sometimes to the point where i feel it is pointless even trying. I work hard and im a genuine guy. What do I need to do to turn this problem around? How can I start attracting girls instead of getting depressed by the whole situation???? Please Help!
2007-01-22 23:17:07 · 11 answers · asked by Michael P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop!! &breath. first u need a personal make over-i mean emotional &physical, to make u feel good about urself. women can sense if a man doesnt love themselfs enough (6th sense).
u have the means to meet women use it!!! flirt, come across with confidence!!
i had men deliver things to my house with a flirty smile, &respect( eyes on my face not boobs). They strike up a conversation &use homor!! they left with me still remembering their names!!!
2007-01-23 00:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are nothing but a life support system for a c**t. do what I did and take up skydiving! It's a lot more fun. Oh yeah, and buy yourself a Fleshlight. It's as good as the real thing and doesn't talk.
2007-01-23 07:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a better job and go for girls u earn better than the girls dont want to give out their hard earned money when they cld get some other men to spend on them
2007-01-23 08:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by Naughty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Come on! Cheer up! Remember: there is someone for everyone. Yours is on the way! Just smile and be happy! Good things come when you do not expect them! You will see!!!!
2007-01-23 07:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dear you sound to be really sweet and decent. Try speaking to more people (especially girlz).you know wat try chatting mailng them and yes LOOKS where you hv to be perfect be hot ,cool helpful with a very attractive smile.hot doesn't mean you have to take off your clothes most timz just look hot eg. black and white coloured tight clothes and yes build some muscles. put gel sometimz on your hair and comb it either like George Clooney(hoolwood) or Hrithik Roshan (Bollywood). or look like them
Email me for some more tips hottop4ever@yahoo.com
2007-01-23 07:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your looking at the wrong tipe of woman.If you wood really just look just a little bit biger around you wood fine the right one for you.don't look at the out side of packeg.IT mit look nice on the out side .it what in side.if you take your time to really look at someone for who thay are you mite find the one your looking for right next to you.well good luck.
2007-01-23 07:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by micki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww i'm sorry.
just be confident in who you are as a person :)...
dont let other women make you feel lonely,.. it's a tough world out there no1s gonna take care of you unless you take care of yourself!
go out to the dating scene & date girly!
2007-01-23 07:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up & be good enough. Like a man.
2007-01-23 13:18:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to calm down & wait for your suitable dream girl!girls r like butterflies if you tried to chase them, they will fly away!if you just stand still & wait, they will come to you & may stand on your shoulders!calm down!& wait!
2007-01-23 07:23:00 · answer #9 · answered by donia f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop looking so hard - she could be right under your nose!
2007-01-23 07:22:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋