We were doing really good and even had a little extra when last year my husband lost his job. I work too. he has since gotten anouther job that pays a little less then his privious one. well since then we have fallen behind and are trying to catch up. we havent asked a single person for help , but it seems like since we had some bad times both of our families are angry with us. Is this true in a lot of families?
2007-01-22 21:43:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
it´s sad but true most people only want to know you if you are in good money but the people that should be important to you stand by you through thick and thin.if i where you i would tell them what i think it will hurt them but honesty is the best policy and you will see who will stay your friend the others just keep a safe distance contact is very important when it comes to family
2007-01-22 23:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds a bit like, that family members were using you before and now, since they're not able to get from you like before, they blame you.
Well, I say, good riddance, if so!
If I'm right, they would or would've ben there to help you. Yes, I'm afraid, this greedy world is full of users, don't let it get to you, they're NOT worth it.
Go on with you're liefs and take care of each other and consider the source!
2007-01-22 22:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them be angry. You are not their personal financer and they can figure out a way to pay their bills just like you and your husband have. Sometimes a family member will do you dirty before a friend will.
2007-01-22 23:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps they are afraid that you WILL be asking them for money...and perhaps they are self-centered enough to care more about their pocketbooks than their relatives...
It is not okay. I hope you find some friends that will care about you for YOU...
Good luck!
2007-01-22 21:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by Julia A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they really cared and loved you, they would not do this. They would visit you and help you regardless of whether youre in rags or riches.
They are spongers!
2007-01-22 22:37:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with a lot of people. They love you when you pay, and dislike you when you go bankrupt.
2007-01-22 21:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋