There is a girl four years younger than me. She is 5'10-11" without heels (she plays basketball). I am a 5'4" guy
I met her randomly at school and started talking to her. When I went to leave, she asked me for my number and later that day called me. I never expected anything to come of that meeting since I didn't think a much taller girl would like me.
Anyways, she called me again to invite me for coffee. I declined since it was late, but we spoke for another 40 minutes.
I feel bad about this, but I'm not sure if I should pursue this any further. I want to get to know her, but I feel self-conscious about the height difference. In general, I feel self-conscious about my height.
What should I do? I don't think she has a problem with my height since she has contacted me. She is religious and has faith in God so I don't think she cares that her God made me short. But for some reason I'm having a hard time dealing with this.
2007-01-22 21:43:05 · 5 answers · asked by . 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She probably is more self conscious of her height than yours. If you two have made a connection- GO FOR IT!! Having things in common and being good friends is more important than any height difference, for sure!
I, too am 5'10" without heels and really have never been bothered by height differences. . .only crummy personalities and bad attitudes.
Good luck!
2007-01-22 22:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by SleeplessInMilwaukee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Well, firstly, I hope your not considering not doing anything about it because of her being 4 yrs younger. I was 4 yrs younger than a guy I really liked, but im rally mature for my age, and we got along amaxzingly, but he didnt do anything about it cus of the age difference, and it really hurt me!
Secondly,the height. So what! We know a couple who are happily married witha Kid, a nd hes around 5`3" and shes, like 5`11! They are sucha sweet couple, and they look really nice together, despite the height difference! In the end,hun, it doesent matter abotuthat, so long as you love each other. WHo knows-she might be having just the same doubts about going out with someone shorter and younger than her!
Just try it out-and dont feel inecure aobut your height! People who judge you on that are asses who need to get a life! Everyones different-i know crazy short guys, crazy tall guys, and in the middle guys-in the end, you gotta live any way! Hope his helps!
Rebekah
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2007-01-23 05:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding???? She asked for your number??? Of course she's interested in you. Whats height have to do with anything? Sounds like you're missing out, call her , talk to her,go out on a date. Have fun!!
2007-01-23 05:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Count your blessings. Go out with her. And be glad that she believes.
2007-01-23 05:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by lovingdaddyof2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go up on her...lol
2007-01-23 05:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋