ok, ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we were very happy and in love until about 2 months ago when things started going bad. He was a virgin until he met me, and everything used 2 be so loving and happy. Since we have had sex, all that has gone. we never have "cuddles" or talk and have a laugh, its like the sexual side has taken over our relationship. i just want to get that first feeling back when we were both so happy. What can i do?
2007-01-22 21:42:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like ur typical women r from venus
men r from mars sort of thing.
2 go backwards now, u have 2 take back control.
turn him down, don't give in 2 quickly.
make him wait, court u & woo u 4 a change.
men c sex as sex, us women WE c more & want more.
try talking 2 him about how much ur relationship has changed & how unhappy u r.
stay calm & iron out ur problems like adults.
2007-01-22 21:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm sorry to say this but he might just wanted lose his virginity to you because he felt comfortable with you at that time i hope this is not the case though because when i was a virgin i just wanted to be with someone i was comfortable with but really didn't have feelings for but i didn't and just had sex with someone i love . but the first thing you can do is talk to him about how you feel.. but having experience with this when this usually happens the not talking, and not laughing this long most likely it's another women. if he changes a lot and you get that "women's intuition" which we all get then snoop around and go with your gut let him know how you feel and ask him is he cheating ( even though none usually tell you) or does he want you anymore and explained to him why you feel this way.. say to him i have gave my all to you i waited for you to have sex with me and respected that you was a virgin i could of been with someone more experienced in the bed but no i waited ..but now your acting like you used me just for that and it hurts me but if you don't understand or change then i have to go. Also maybe let him wait for sex like you had to wait for him to see if he is using you for just that or to see if the relationship will get better he will want it more if he can't get it all the time he also might think he is not god in bed so he might think you are saying he doesn't no how to have sex and he might feels he is not pleasing you and that you are faking it so try also to make him feel like he is good in bed . I Hope Things Work Out For You
2007-01-23 06:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by ebeyes23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop being such a wuss and get the sex while you can. The next stage will be he rediscovers going out drinking with his mates and you'll be lucky to get a conversation OR sex.
2007-01-23 06:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by madonnas_minge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe u should be telling this to your boyfriend this. he mightn't realise boys are thick sometimes.explain 2 him that u like sex but want romantic stuff and if he doesn't respond in the way u want him 2 dump him he is not worth it
2007-01-23 05:50:15 · answer #4 · answered by jcathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was only with you for the sex darling. Dump him and move on cos that first feeling will NEVER return.
2007-01-23 05:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you did the" sex bit" to soon! Men are generally ruled by their d---s so its unlikely you will get that first feeling back coz the whole relationship has changed........................
2007-01-26 17:33:25 · answer #6 · answered by bevalou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your avators shows Male, how come you're female?
Anyways, maybe she never loved you...
2007-01-23 05:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by codedfeelins 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him!!
If you love each other, you should be able to tell him anything.
2007-01-23 05:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by bee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him what you are feeling and going thru.
2007-01-23 05:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋