hows the best way? i'm not really good at talking to my mum bout relationships, sex and that she sort of jumps to the wrong conclusions everytime. so how do i tell her? plz help.
2007-01-22 21:33:59 · 36 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Jus tell her out straight. ~ I have a boyfriend. Or jus dnt tell her at all
2007-01-22 21:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by mandee_00 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are finding it hard to talk to your mum maybe the best thing to is put it down in words on a piece of paper as i find this a good way to get my feelings across to my mum. As I also find it hard to discuss things with her when I was younger. Try and tell her before someone else does. Give her your not just before you go out some where if it will help or be there when she reads it. Good Luck I hope this answer helps you.
2007-01-22 21:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by Knight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but assume, you're a Teen.
Even though you say its hard to talk to you're Mom, its a must do. Ask her nice, that you need to talk with her. Let her know you value her opinion and like to hear it, but would also like for her to listen to you and give you her trust, after all, you're her daughter.
Make sure you plan on a good Day or Mood, on her side, that can only help.
Don't push her, she might not had that openness with her Mom, so you both will have to learn to communicate. Communication is beautiful but with many, it has to be learned.
If you love each other, as should be, it will happen. Don't give up, keep on trying, a small prayer might give you the right words.
2007-01-22 21:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Mom, There was something i wanted to share with you but i didnt know how so i asked for help at the yahoo answers and from there a new'n'nice buddy advised me to write to you.
Actually i have a boy friend, I met him 5 months ago and nnoooooooo no i havent had sex as yet but now as i was about to do it so i thought it would be better to share it with you.
I hope you would understand and would react in a friendly and sypathatic way.
thanx,
Love
Amy
2007-01-22 21:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion i could start up off with exhibiting her how in charge and grown up i'm. I even have all A's at college. I do all of my chores with out being informed. I help out around the living house. i'm in charge now that i'm sixteen. be waiting to barter or learn you're too youthful. Negotiation could incorporate a chaperon. in actuality on the instant actually everyone seems to be so rapid, i does no longer enable my daughters as much as now at this age. She could desire to go out in a team putting if an grownup could be present day, yet i do no longer understand you in my opinion and maybe you're transforming into a diverse adulthood point that is depended on. attempt to get her to work out that and sturdy luck to you!
2016-11-26 20:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how old are you?
Whether your mum likes it or not One day you will have a boyfriend..... That's life and your mum has to get use to that fact...
I have a 10 year old daughter. and what can you do.. i talk to her.. but when she is old enough she will make her own decisions.Dispite what i say... Explain that to be open she has to trust you...... You dont seem to be a stupid person... Let her know... Good luck,
2007-01-22 21:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by Aussie_chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look is your mum against dating ??
If yes then you need to talk to her so slowly first tell her about your friends then that there is many good boys in the life then tell her that there is a boy that really loves you and wanna talk to you make a way that you know it wouldn't make your mum angry you know her more that me and after all we all know that our mums want us to be happy so I don't think that she would make your life bad
2007-01-22 21:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by Ice princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every mother & daughter should have an open relationship where you can share these things with each other.... if you are honest with her she will trust you more & not jump to conclusions about everything... she just wants to protect you.... maybe invite him over for dinner or something so she can get to know him...
2007-01-22 21:39:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, I know its difficult, I've been there but just explain what he's like and you really like him etc. The truth will come out even if you don't tell her, and she would be even more upset to think you can't talk to her about these sort of things. Good Luck.
2007-01-22 22:44:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her.
There is nothing wrong in having a boyfriend.
Being secretive sometimes causes problems.
Be honest & open at all times, that is the best policy & don't be afraid.
Good luck & best wishes
2007-01-22 21:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by ANDREW H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go to your mom start some interesting conversation with her ( intersting means in which she is interested) and then when u feel she is talking freely then say mom i have some thing to tell u , then u can tell i have a bf and i like him and the other details which u want to tell her. Good luck.
2007-01-22 21:40:05 · answer #11 · answered by daisy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋