I am so bored . my life is so bad . I feel that there is no meaning for my life I have problems with my family

Question

I have got problems with my family . I have got 4 sisters and 1 brothers they are all bad and I feel that no one loves me When they go somewhere they don't take me with them I am the youngest one and my mum don't let me go out with my friends so all the time I set in my house alone doing nothing and I am bored all the time .
Also the talk to me with rude impolite words
I am feeling so bad about my life And I feel sometimes that I wanna kill my self

Answer 1

Life can be worse. At least you have a family and a house to live in.

Answer 2

This may seem like a really dumb response, but it could be MUCH worse. I graduated hs at the end of my junior year in '09. I used to feel the same way, that life is so boring, hs is so dramatic and stupid, and all the other stuff... but when you get out of hs, it all changes. I would give anything to go back and have limited responsibilities and no money problems and only myself to worry about. You are only 14. Wait until you get to be 16, get your license and for awhile the freedom will be great, then you'll take it for granted, be bored, then turn 18, go to college, move out, realize the real world sucks and that your life revolves around work and you have 50 more years until you can retire and finally have some real freedom. I think that's pretty much life goes. There are ups and downs at every stage. It's all about cherishing the ups and knowing that you will make it through the downs. I used to hate it when people told me stuff like this when i was young, but as I got older, I realized how true it was. Hang in there. You never know where life will take you. In the mean time, find something your passionate about and do something about it. When I was 16, one of my teachers was defending Americans torturing prisoners so I made a sticker that said "Torture is wrong no matter who you are". Small thing, but it made me feel a liitle better for the rest of the day. And it's the little things like that you will remember and laugh about later.

Answer 3

Ok, first of all, don't shrug this off as a simple problem that you can just ignore or move on from. Anything that's causing you to have suicidal thoughts is SERIOUS and should be helped. First I think you should talk to your family and tell them how you feel. If that doesn't work, go talk to some other people in your family and talk to them. If none of that is working, then go see a professional. That could be a school counselor, someone at a teen health clinic, anyone like that. If you still need help feel free to email me! I've been through this stuff too so I DO understand

Answer 4

I hate that you feel that way. You must understand that sometimes we take for-granted the ones we love and that could very well be the case with your family, they love you but take for-granted the fact you are there. You must also understand that you don't know what the future holds for you. You may meet someone and have a wonderful life someday. Boredom is nothing to want to end your life over. You could try taking up reading or doing crafts. Painting is such a good outlet. It has helped me through many a sad day. When you paint, you feel a sense of accomplishment when you have created something. Talk to your mom about how you feel. Everyone has bad days but, count your blessings instead of your burdens. That helps too.

Answer 5

Believe me, these events has made you a better person than anyone else in your family. You have a compassion and an empathy that others lack because they haven't been in your position. Sometimes the only friend you have in the world is you, and you sound like someone that I would choose as a friend because I know that you would never neglect me. Suicide is not the answer because you are too rare and valuable to this planet to lose. Instead, give thanks for the examples of bad behaviors that you see so that you will never imitate them and wait patiently for the time when you will be freed from your prison. You will meet someone who will be amazed at how loving and sensitive you are to others. You will be an awesome parent and spouse, a gift given to you by your uncaring family.

Answer 6

Don't kill yourself, that's not the answer. You need to tell your family how you feel about this. Talk to your mom & dad first and let them know that you feel like they don't love you (I'm sure they do) and you feel left out. They won't laugh at you so give it a try. It could really help and things could change. If you don't want to talk to them, try a school counselor or a teacher. Tell them all your feelings and how you'd like things to change. I'm sure your family loves you very much. Sometimes people just get caught up in everyday life that they forget the ones they love. We have all felt ignored or left out at some point in time so you're being dramatic or weird. Just be sure to talk to an adult about this.

Answer 7

I wished you told us your age, it will be much better to deal with your case. DO you go to school and if you do, do you have a friend who you can invite to your house so that you could do things that other people do?

Why does your family hate you? Is it because of something you have done, or is it just that your family cannot stand you?

If you have serious problems with your family that treats you like a leper, have you consulted the Social Workers in your area?

If you are still a child i recommend that you contact the Social Workers in your area or the Shelter for abused people close to you.

All in all I want you to know that killing yourself will not help you it will only satisfy your family if they really want to be rid of, you should know that you are a very special person no matter how you think you life is not worth living.

a lot of people go it tough everyday, ARE YOU A SURVIVOR? SHOW YOUR FAMILY YOU ARE!

Answer 8

If you have thoughts about kill yourself you should seek help... There is no good reason to kill yourself. I've been down that road and you can get past it. Please find help! A lot of people are saying to talk to your family, but if your family is genuinely abusive then talking to them isn't going to help. You should try to talk to a therapist and if you can't, talk to the counselor at school or your teacher. People who are saying that she should get a hobby or just look on the bright side (all do respect I'm not trying to insult you or be mean,) I'm glad that you are trying to help and helping is a good thing but it does seem like you are belittling her problem. This is an actual issue and I'm sure if she could just get over it she would have already.

Here is a number that you can call if you need to talk to someone: 1-877-968-8454 (Teen Link)

Answer 9

I have had feelings like that in the past, but then I realised that Im worth more than to give the satisfaction to someone and end it all. One of the main things that helped me is music and doing nice things for others. I dont know how bad it is for you, Im not there to see. But keep in mind that it could be worse, you have a chance to live while others struggle to keep their life.

How do u know it wont get better? When u get old enough u will have the chance to move out. For now be strong, be patient and try to have fun.

Answer 10

I need more information. How old are you? What are the ages of your brothers and sisters? When you are left home, is there a babysitter with you? Can you give me some examples of the impolite words they say to you?

Answer 11

I know what you mean there, buddy. I have a stepmother that made Attila the Hun seem like a saint! I'd get slapped in the face for doing nothing. I couldn't sit on the bed, even when I was the one who made it up, I couldn't reach for food at the table without getting stabbed in the hand with a fork, and I was locked in my closet for punishment. Treat it like water off a duck's back. Don't even consider killing yourself. I used to read encyclopedias and pretend I was on vacations all around the world. I snuck friends in the bedroom from the window and we'd play games and just talk. Where's your father? Are you sure you haven't caused them to be angry with you? Disarm them with kindness. Don't yell at them. Treat them the way you'd want to be treated. Find some hobbies to do inside and outside the home.