if you haven't done it urself u might know one who has. Why do men get so sweet & make us fall in love with them, then call us clingy & run when we do? I didn't mean, before, to say all men do that. The ones who do, why?
2007-01-22 20:19:41 · 8 answers · asked by hiding_face4now 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi flower
There are several different reasons why us blokes do things like that, because we don't want committment, because we're scared of committment, because we're just using you, blah blah blah.
The real reason is because we are IDIOTS!!
I mean its is just not macho to show your true feelings....... is it?
What rubbish eh!!
We carry furniture, change spark plugs, chop wood, drink beer, no problem, but can we show a bit of affection? NOT A CHANCE! Its not as though we'd lose a finger or get a black eye......unless of course it was affection towards someone elses wife or your best friend, in which case I expect injury would be on the cards.
The top and bottom of it is that most blokes take the hunter-gatherer thing a wee bit too literally.... they'd rather go hunting for beer and gathering phone numbers.
I think you should forget about meeting Mr Right, go out and enjoy yourself with your mates, stop trying, and THEN you'll hit the jackpot. It may not happen right away, you might have to kiss a few frogs before you meet your Prince Charming, but hey, so what, its all part of the fun!
And as as far as all of those frogs who hop off along the way are concerned, well, its their loss!!!!
I think you will find that it is the fat ugly blokes like me who are the committed affectionate ones, just stick to them!!!!
Stick to having fun, sod the rest, nature will take its course!!
Girl power!!
Best wishes
Geordie
2007-01-22 21:00:49 · answer #1 · answered by Grizz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because a man wants a woman to want him but not be desperate. There is a bit of cat and mouse on both parts, if you fast and clingy affections can be views as desperate attempts for affection which is sweet but gets annoying. A guy wants to feel needed not settled for, and some men don't cuddle. It may be the problem isn't you at all, maybe you just haven't found the right guy yet. It could be a bunch i am willing to bet its a combo here.
-NmD!
2007-01-23 04:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women are both opposite sexes . They are naturally attracted towards one and other. It is true that men for first time are very sweet and make women fall in love with thenm and after getting some pleasure out of woman's company they are run away from this relat ionship. It is not good. If you love a woman, love him passionately and do not break this relat ion. Good Luck.
2007-01-23 04:26:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but it's the part of the "chase". What you should do to counteract that is not to get too clingy and be careful before you do. I, for one, like a clingy woman especially when there is a love relationship.
2007-01-23 04:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have seen the thing being done by Girls and many cases for that :)
I dont agree with you...
I can even prove it to you
you can contact me on mail if needed.
2007-01-23 04:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by Amit B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved again
2007-01-23 04:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Uthman A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because those are BOYS, not men.
2007-01-23 04:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
they wanna hv sex....u refuze.....u suffer babe
2007-01-23 04:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by -N!k0¬ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋