My ex boyfriend and I have kept in touch for two years..we broke up when i moved away for college. We both still love each other and talk but i know he's dating other women. Why does he say to me "Are you not going to call me back?" when I don't return his calls right away? Does this suggest he really still loves me and misses me? PS. We DON't have sex anymore. but always talk about getting back together in the future. but he broke up with me and then worries when I dont call him back..im so confused
2007-01-22 19:59:10 · 13 answers · asked by Jasmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants you to call him back.
-NmD!
2007-01-22 20:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you broke it off, he may still care, so he sounds insecure if that's the case. The other scenario is that he's keeping you in reserve. You are not his GF, so tell him nicely that you have a very busy life and will return his calls when you can. This'll help him to decide if he wants to get back with you now instead of stringing you along for some distant date in the future. I think I saw a movie with this same plot! Good Luck.
2007-01-22 20:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by Loki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think u know what love is all abt. If u both love each other, why broke off in the first place? We have gd technologies nowadays that cld make us keep in touch 24/7. So, it's a real lame excuse when u said ur going to college and yet u both love each other...i doubt its love at all. When u love someone, u will be with him/her all the time, no matter how far both of u cld be, still u will be together. Till u know what is the meaning of love, don't date!!
2007-01-22 20:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to keep you around as an option if the other women he's dating drops him like a rock. Don't play the game. Why is he dating others when you claim there is a love there? That's no way to prove it, is it? I dump him and move on. You're confused because you know what the right answer is, but you need the courage to do it.
2007-01-22 20:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by gone 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is controlling you. My advice: move on. I bet a million bucks hes screwing other girls. You dont need that drama. Find a man near you that will not play mind games on you. Guys do this to get what they want. He wants you to follow him around like a puppy and thats what you are doing. You calling him all the time, I bet he tells all his buddies that you stalk him now since you broke up. You need to stay away from guys like this!
2007-01-22 20:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really don,t get this. You say you still love each other
so why can,t you ask him?
It sounds to me that you are just friends keeping in touch
with one another and he is giving you mixed messages by
asking why you don,t return his calls. Then you getting in
a tizz thinking that there must be more to it than that!
You,re just making life complicated for yourself. Tell him
how you feel ask how he feels and go from there.
2007-01-22 20:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i broke up with my ex 4 years ago, i'm dating this other guy and i love him like crazy.still though i keep in touch with my ex every week-i'm in Greece,he's in N.Y.- he says the same thing:call me, why didn't u call?etc.. the thing is that they want to be sure that they are still part of our lives.i try to make it clear to him that he is,do the same.
2007-01-22 20:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by disco ball 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is not confusing!! Simple! He's saying..."Stay on the shelf until I'm done ******* around with any ho that will have me." Don't do it girl.
2007-01-22 20:06:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he doesn't want to let go. Sometimes things that are good are hard to let go of. But when things and people change things need to be let go.
2007-01-22 20:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by hstoic01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it mean she is finish with you and she don,t what to see you ever again and she dosen,t what you to phone her or even say hi.she what to see you out of her life for ever.she dosen,t what to be your girl.life with her is over forever.she,s dumping you. hate to say it but she mad at you and she hates you.
2007-01-22 20:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋