My parent will just called me and said they need money. Pls bank in the money asap. They will give all sort of stories. Mom is getting her pension and dad is collecting rental. I dont know what to do and say. I, myself is struggling to plan my life. How on earth I can do my saving if they just simply keep on asking without considering my situation.
2007-01-22 19:54:52 · 4 answers · asked by raraluglio 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just say no...
2007-01-22 20:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't have an obligation to help --but I know how bad it feels when someone you love asks --so do this--when they call--say well (and you aren't lying) I just paid the bills and bought groceries and all I have just now is blahh bla--even if its 20.00 --that's all you can spare that's it--just on any giving day call and just to chat and start mildly complaining about the bills and other expenses and how its near impossible to go forward--let them casually know that you are just as the rest of us and live on a tight budget --pay check to paycheck--
2007-01-22 20:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How often did you hit on your parents when you were growing up. Maybe life on the pension is harder than they planned. Try talking about it with them, maybe they are unaware of your financial situation.
2007-01-22 20:36:23 · answer #3 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear... if u are reali in a difficult position... u got to talk to ur parents. And they got to understand... iF they don... jst give them a small amount which u can afford to and tel them this is wat u can give due to some money problems... (i reali hope ur parents understand)
2007-01-22 20:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by sUnseT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋