confused & in love?

Question

I know this guy for a while now and he and I are best friends. I knew he had a g/f but I did not know that I would slowly fall for him. I think about him all the time, and we're always on the phone. He recenty told me he has feelings for me, but he has a g/f and they are engaged. What should I do? I am so lost and in love. thanks

Answer 1

Unfortunantly the ball is not in your court here. You need to leave him to make the decision on his own. If he truely feels for you the way you do for him he will break off his enagagement. If he doesnt and goes ahead and marries his fiancee then you need to accept that its his decision and stop it there. Its hard but you just need to sit tight and wait for him to decide.

Answer 2

Ask urself this question, since u said he is engaged. Wld u want the same thing to happen to u if u were his fiance? Why wld u wanna ruin someone else life for ur own? For a guy who is engaged and yet falling in love with another girl, that's a loser to me.

Answer 3

If he has a gf then do you really want to be the other girl? He may have feelings for you but he also has a gf... keep that in mind. If he really is in love with you like you are with him then he would leave his gf but that doesn't happen often. I think you might need to find a man that can be completely yours.

Answer 4

i really dont know u but still i do want to help. its because once i faced the same problem. from my experience i can tell if u really love someone then dont break any relations. let my clearify. u felt for the guy. so u must respect the feelings of the other lady who is engaged with the man u love. u r not responsible for this. he is. coz he was not honest with his other g/f. so wat is the garantee, today he loves u, tomorrow he wont fall in love with another lady? think it. i soully respect ur feelings. thats y i'm telling u. there are several possibilities that he may fall in love with some other lady. wat will u do then. i think u should love someone who only loves u desparately. i think this will help u decide wat u've to do with yourself. GOOD LUCK

Answer 5

You got to hang back and let their relationship flop on its own. If you try and come between its not going to be any kind of stable platform on which to build your relationship. You got to be a friend here and keep withing the friendship range while he has a relationship going. Give it time and ride it out, if it is meant for you than God will make it work.
-NmD!

Answer 6

Wow.Um..if he was engaged you really shouldve backed off cuz you wouldnt like it if that was your fiancee' falling for someone else. Sorry if I sound like an *** but its true. BUT if you like him and he likes you and not his fiancee',well i guess you guys should get together as in date. If he has feelings for you than he should end his engagement before its too late.

Answer 7

I think you subconsciously have a desire to go for what you know you cannot have at this time...men and women go through this game frequently....admit it is a pretty lame thing to do and you will eventually get past it .

Answer 8

if u r the real friend of u r friend dont enter fair in his life also dont tail him that u love it u take time to understand his filling and also give time to him to understand ur filling.

be a good friend, if ur filling is realy true for his he understand it and if he realy fille that he is not live without u he give +ve responce to u

Answer 9

u need to look real down and check out for the feelings u have in you ... this can be mistaken easily for somthing real deep ... all crushes are like that ... if u truly find him worth it ... u need to tell him

Answer 10

confusion.... hummm
But i did not see any confusion because that guy himself confessed that he has feelings for u. and one man cannot be shared by two if he is genuine. probably he has made his mind but u also ask him clearly that he wants to be with u or her g/f....