my bf and i have been dating for a year now and he is my first kiss. we are both 25 yrs old. we have not engaged in sex, but when we make out/kiss, there is touching involved. Touching only in the upper body, is that normal? What is your opinion about touching?
2007-01-22 19:13:46 · 11 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its great you have waited this long. He must really love you. Be lucky to have him. I think touching is good. That's how you find out what you like and don't like. Be open and tell him what you like and don't like. If you do this when the time comes the sex will be great.
2007-01-22 19:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by darlingnicky772 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our bodies are programmed to respond to stimuli. Kissing, touching etc are all pre-cursor to sex or at least they will increase your tendency to engage in sex. Thus depending on your conviction, you should set the appropriate boundaries and ask yourself if you can really stick to those boundaries in the heat of the moment.
2007-01-23 03:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by KG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you aren't married yet then no sex is not normal it's great. waiting is ok. it'll be there when you get there. don't rush it. if he doesn't touch you below the waist maybe he's trying to wait as well and is only doing what he thinks you want to do. why not ask him.. or just get married it's been a year , don't you love him
2007-01-23 03:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by HAMSANDWICH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know...there are so many people who have started having sexual relations as young as fifteen or sixteen. It is rare to find someone who wants to save herself for marrage. Bravo to you! As far as normal. well normal is what is best for you, what you and your boyfriend feel comfortable with. If he is the one for you, then I would say go for it...but if there is any doubt, maybe you just want to wait for that proposal. There is nothing in this word more wonderful to a man/husband than him being the first one when he get married.
2007-01-23 03:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by natashainka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it common if both party are enjoying with the kisses. There sure touches and huges around.
2007-01-23 03:18:02 · answer #5 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may get pregnant by kissing the touching part at 25 is way to young wait till about 45 to50 years old
2007-01-23 03:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ditto
2007-01-23 03:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by Pure 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its strange that at 25, he is your first kiss. but touching is nice and eventually it will lead tomore intimate things, but take your time and do anything you are not ready to do.
2007-01-23 03:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by Ayati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
touching is ok,you're both an adult,and you said you aregoing out for a year,as long as you don'tfeel awkward and you really love your partner,it's very much okay.
2007-01-23 03:19:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The better question here is, is it normmal to you? If you really do feel uncomfortable about it explain to him how you feel.
2007-01-23 03:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by Ivanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋