I met a girl on an online dating site. Her and I hit it off right from the get-go. We started talking for a couple days, when we started talking a bit more intimately. One night, (I've only know her for a few days) she wanted me to take off my shirt on webcam. I refused because I am just not comfortable with that stuff. She completely turned on me, called me a fake, a jerk, and a phony. She was soo cool and nice to me before that. What is her problem? was I the wrong one?
2007-01-22 18:00:28 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I THINK she just wanted to use you... told you what you wanted to hear... thats it.
2007-01-22 18:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by Loathing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were not in the wrong at all! People can put up such facades, especially over the internet, and she was just horny and looking for some fun. It was not wrong of you at all to refuse, and she should have respected your decision. If you keep talking to her over the web, just remember that you don't know her at all, especially after she turned on you like that. Keep your dignity and don't let her convince you to do anything you don't want to do. =)
2007-01-22 18:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by La 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say she is the wrong one. It has only been a few days, I would chalk it off to online dating bad luck. There are some really interesting folks out there. Sometimes you catch a couple of whackos.
2007-01-22 18:03:54 · answer #3 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds shallow and not very intelligent. She wanted to see you without a shirt on. Period! You didn't show her, she didn't get her way and she got mad! Sounds a bit spoiled to me! Too high maintenance. Get back to the drawing board and try for something better! I think you're very respectable! I like your choice to just say NO! What a great guy!
2007-01-22 18:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just weren't willing to do something as weird as that with a perfect stranger. If it had been your wife who was out of state and you said no then I'd say you we're wrong but in this one you're right.
2007-01-22 18:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is going to treat you like that over something that made you uncomfortable, she was definitely not in it to find a meaningful relationship. Be very careful with those dating sites. I've not heard very good things about them.
2007-01-22 18:05:53 · answer #6 · answered by Molly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARGH... I'LL TELL YOU WHAT THE HECK MY PROBLEM IS... I NEED A NEW JOB, ALRIGHT!! AND I COULD USE A LITTLE LOVE IN MY LIFE!! THERE, YOU GOT YOUR ANSWER ARE YOU HAPPY NOW... WELL, ARE YA?? .....j/k... but not about the whole needing the new job or needing the love part. =) Oh... the poll... um.... BLACK
2016-05-24 00:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is wanting to get some action over a web cam!
2007-01-22 18:04:33 · answer #8 · answered by daisyjzmum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her...She's obviously not your type and you're not missing out on anything. You deserve a much nicer gal...Good luck ..Keep looking plenty of fish in the sea :o)
2007-01-22 18:04:49 · answer #9 · answered by Curiously 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you weren't wrong. She should have respected that you didn't want to. Maybe she was looking for something other than a relationship/boyfriend.
2007-01-22 18:03:11 · answer #10 · answered by Elysia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, she sounds freaky. Freaky isn't always bad, but she shouldn't push you. You'll fly your freak flag when you're ready. IN the meantime, keep looking.
2007-01-22 18:04:30 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋