MY MOM AND I ARE NOT BEST FRIENDS. I KEEP SECRETS FROM HER BECAUSE SHE ALWAYS BRINGS ME DOWN WHEN IM HAPPY ABOUT A GUY. SHE DOES NOT KEEP SECRETS, SHE TELLS MY LIL BRO MY PERSONAL STUFF BECAUSE SHE AND MY LIL BRO ARE BFF. SO NOW IM KEEPING SECRETS FROM HER. I TALK TO HER BUT SHE IS STUCK IN THE 50'S. SHE WANTS ME TO MOVE OUT WHEN IM MARRIED BECAUSE IF I MOVE OUT IT MEANS IM NOT A VIRGIN AND SHE WILL DISOWN ME. MY OLDER BRO LOST HIS VIRGINITY BUT SHE DID NOT DISOWN HIM BECAUSE HE'S ALLOWED TO TEST OUT THE WATERS. I TRIED TALKIN TO HER BUT SHE WILL DISOWN ME IF I MOVE OUT OR IF I TELL HER IM NOT A VIRGIN. SHE GOT MAD WHEN I ASKED HER ALOT OF "WHAT IF" QUESTIONS. SHE SAID SHE WOULD KICK ME OUT OF THE HOUSE AND LEAVE ME FOR DEAD IF SHE EVER FOUND OUT I LOST MY VIRGINITY BEFORE MARRIAGE. WTF SHE DIDNT DO THAT TO MY BRO SO WHY IS SHE PRESSURING ME SO MUCH TO TURN OUT LIKE HER. WAIT TILL MARRIAGE AND GET DIVORCE BECAUSE OF TROUBLE IN THE BEDROOM. SORY FOR LONG STORY BUT ITS GIVES YALL AN IDEA
2007-01-22 17:44:48 · 5 answers · asked by minispears05 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
her parenting job ended when you were 18. She now needs to stop trying to raise and limit you. Your life is yours, do what you feel is right. Sexuality is your right. Experimentation is your right. (If you only have hamburger you will always wonder about steak) But with those rights comes the responsibility to keep your mom outta your life-and to realize the need to keep those two lives seperate. Enjoy, be careful, but save up to move out. Once you are on your own she will have to respect you...
2007-01-22 17:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by D4gotten1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 19 now.. your old enough to do what you want as long as it isn't illegal. tell your mom what you want to tell her, seems like you wanna tell her the truth so just get it over with, if she disowns you, her problem. she should realise eventually she's done wrong by you. my mom kicked me out when i was 15 so your lucky. stay with a friend till you get on your own two feet.
2007-01-23 01:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by Kitterkat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom to take a reality pill and explain to her that its ur life and ur old enough to make decisions for yourself and also your old enough to look after yourself so if she really wants to disown u for sumthin as stupid as sex then thats her problem and her loss.
2007-01-23 01:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** your mom, she doesnt kno **** about modern life. You have every right to test the waters, just like your older brother. Have sex and enjoy!
2007-01-23 01:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow man you have it real bad. sorry anyway don't tell any more.just do what you have to do. i don't think she will disown you. but be vary cool about it
2007-01-23 01:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋