I really got close to this girl, I care about her a lot, I've known her for 2 1/2 years now, and well I really really like her, but the problem is.... she's 17, and well... I'm 21, Would it be wrong if I were to ask her out and she said yes, but not do anything with her sexually wise? Or what should I do? I'm very confused because I don't want people to look at it the wrong way in the age difference if I were to ask her out and if she were to say yes. because she confessed it and well.... she feels the same way for me
2007-01-22 17:37:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The right thing to do, in my opinion, is to remain friends and wait to ask her out until she turns 18. If you ask her out now, it will be too easy not to get physical with one another if you both have feelings for the other. You really don't want the horrific trouble it will cause you and if you both care enough, you can hold out for a while longer to ask her out. You sound like a very respectable guy with a good head on your shoulders. Don't trade your intelligence in. Hang out together and grow with her and then you'll have it all figured out by then and when the timing is right, you can walk through paradise together as adults. Stay strong!
2007-01-22 17:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you were once a 17-year-old going for a 14-year-old, I think you can pull of the 21 and 17. That being said, I'd never do it because it is kind of gross and quite pathetic. Plus there is the whole being accused of kid-touching to worry about. That sticks with you for life.
2007-01-23 01:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 17 and my ex was 21 when we first got together and no one really cared, tho i guess it depends on ya parents and friends and what they think about it, i say go for it, as long as ur not hurting anyone and not pressuring her to do anythin then its fine.
2007-01-23 01:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...by asking the question consciously you know it isn't the right thing to do maybe you are looking for approval to go against what you know to be right listen you've waited this long and a majour amount of maturity can happen in that time for her give her her space ...if its meant to be it'll work out..
gl...
2007-01-23 01:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by UmaCat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can date her but until she reaches 18 she is condiered jail bait to a man thats 21,keep your relationship open honest and enjoy eachothers company this is one sure way if it is her that your really after.
2007-01-23 01:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you guys do decide to date... BE VERY CAREFUL! Because if her mother or anyone in her family gets angry or mad at you and decided to press charges or something. Your in for some deep sh*t. gluck!
2007-01-23 01:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE ITS ALL GOOD. JUST DONT PRESSURE HER INTO HAVING SEX WITH YOU. THE FACT OF THE MATTER IS SHE ISN'T READY FOR SEX YET. THAT IS THE TRUTH. ANYONE WHO DISAGREES IS A FEMENIST AND SHOULD REALLY DO SOME DEEP CRITICAL THINKING.
2007-01-23 01:42:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude just go for it dont base your life on other people's stupid believes. Base your life on how you feel and what will make your life as good as possible.
2007-01-23 01:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by Beaverscanttalk 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You best stay away till she's legal. Sex-wise that is.
2007-01-23 01:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by medium.skate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋